Yay, Zoe and Irene have grown up!! We overheard them argue this morning, “Zoe, you can have the bigger bit of the sweetie.” “No, Irene, you can have the bigger bit of the sweetie.” Irene scolds us when we go to Zoe’s favourite restaurants when she’s out playing with her friends. I guess they’ve become allies against parents who give them money for cafe dinners while they dash off to parties etc. Summer busyness!
Omnibus Review by Anita Mathias of Rushdie, Ishiguro, Lahiri, and Manil Suri
Anita Mathias
Omnibus Review
Commonweal Magazine.
The polished, elegant surfaces of Jhumpa Lahiri’s 2000 Pulitzer Prize-winning volume of nine short stories, An Interpreter of Maladies (Houghton Mifflin, $12, 198 pp.) belie the howling emptiness at their depths. In her carefully observed, minimalist tales, Indian immigrants discover the nightmarish price of the American dream of lots of stuff. Strangers in a strange land, imperfectly understanding, imperfectly understood, missing their community-oriented society, they wrestle with unfamiliar New World problems–loneliness, depression, and isolation which destabilize the marriages that, in at least five stories, agonizingly disintegrate. In a savage story, “A Temporary Matter,” a suffering couple, Shoba and Shukumar, tell each other erstwhile secrets, and we watch them steadily, viciously destroy each other as they face the death of their love and marriage. “Mr. Pirzada” and “Mrs. Sen” present Indian faculty couples, alienated and adrift in a foreign world. More restfully, the final story, “The Third and Final Continent,” details the not uncommon odyssey of the restless Indian (like Lahiri’s and my own and, it’s rumored, Rushdie’s) from India through England to America; and the advent of love within the confines of an arranged marriage.
Donald Hall in "Life Work" on tricking writing out of oneself
Donald Hall, how he tricks so much work out of himself.
Christians like Trees. Who bear fruit as they learn to trust
Christians like Trees. Rooted in trust and faith
Blessed is the man
who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked
or stand in the way of sinners
or sit in the seat of mockers.
and on his law he meditates day and night.
which yields its fruit in season
and whose leaf does not wither.
Whatever he does prospers.
Jer 17:6 He will be like a bush in the wastelands;he will not see prosperity when it comes.He will dwell in the parched placeso of the desert,in a saltp land where no one lives.
Jer 17:7 “But blessedq is the man who trustsr in the Lord,whose confidence is in him.
Jer 17:8 He will be like a tree planted by the waterthat sends out its roots by the stream.sIt does not fear when heat comes;its leaves are always green.It has no worries in a year of droughttand never fails to bear fruit.”
How many people do you know who are prosperous, but do not see prosperity, either through over-spending, through bad luck, or through fear, or miserliness?
But the one who trusts his dreams to God does not fear in a year of drought, its leaves are always green, he always bears fruit.
Trusting in God, of course, implies leaving our dearest dreams in his hands. He may say yes, bless and fructify them. Or, he may have other dreams for us.
Art, a staff to help us bear the ills of life.
A very relaxing Friday evening writer's party
Watched Zoe in Noel Coward’s manic Hay Fever, then went to a writer’s party (smuggling the girls, who were not invited, into a corner of the beautiful North Oxford garden.) Our host, the designer for the current Doctor Who, being filmed near Cardiff, had designed his garden using clever tricks of perspective to make it appear larger. He showed the girls interesting architectural elements salvaged from skips which he’s using in this Dr. Who.
Had some really good, congenial literary conversations which does not always happen at these parties.
The shepherds are senseless and do not inquire of the LORD Jer. 10:21
The shepherds are senseless
and do not inquire of the LORD;
so they do not prosper. Jer 10:21
A church with a pastor who does not know how to really pray will soon become a country club!
Not just shepherds. No one who does not enquire of the Lord will prosper as he otherwise could have. Because he is firing on one cylinder, his own, not a billion, his own and God’s.
Remembering to enquire of the Lord is a learned skill. We only acquire it slowly.
It continually astonishes me how much I do without enquiring of the Lord. Which turns out to be suboptimal, sometimes wasted effort.
A recent example. Over Easter, in France, I heard the Lord suggest I take up blogging. On my return in mid-April, I did. My blogging proved relatively successful.
In less than three months, my blogs shot up the UK ranking charts.
However, instead of resting content with my God-given success, I decided to read up on blogging, and learnt that the A list of bloggers and blog rankings is Technorati top 100. And, without enquiring of the Lord, decided to get my blog or blogs there. How? Adding a post each day that my blog ranking on Technorati slipped by even 1. So yesterday, I wrote 10 posts on my three blogs, and did not work at all on writing my books which is my true calling.
Today, I realised that getting into the Technorati top 100 was not a calling God had given me. Writing my second and third book is.
So, I have decided to limit my posts, no more than four a day.
And leave the rankings to the Lord. He can get me into the top 100 if it is his will. As a gift, not as something I have sweated for.
The blogs are monetized, and earn something daily through Google adsense. They thus help to support my family. So I will increase postings if Google adsense income drops (and also work smarter rather than harder, learning some of the techie things to do with adsense, blogging and SEO that one needs to know for successful blogging). But I will leave rankings in the hands of the Lord.
A very good place indeed to leave anything and everything.
Vermeer–Artist of Domestic Peace

So one can be so quiet, so quiet, so still and peaceful in the midst of domesticity!
That the hands work is no excuse for the mind not to think.
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