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The 20 Best Ways to Rapidly Develop your Blog

By Anita Mathias

Dreaming Beneath The Spires


 1  Read a good blogging book
 Darren Rowse’s 31 Days to a Better Blog is excellent.  
Bryan Allain’s ebook on blogging is worth scanning.
Judging by Jeff Goins’ other material, his Intentional Blogging Course should be good.
2 Post every day
In my opinion.
Firstly, you will get into the habit of daily writing, which is the most useful habit a writer can have.
Secondly, after a year or two, you will find writing becomes swift and easy. After two years of daily blogging, I can get a first draft of a post in 20 minutes, and get it revised and posted with an image and links within an hour. Not always, but very often.
Thirdly, the surest way to get loyal readers is if people can come to your blog daily, knowing there will be something somewhat interesting and thought-provoking. I get irritated when I visit blogs which are irregularly updated, and get out of the habit of visiting.
3 Write as well as you can
Not as well as you can’t. One learns to write by writing and reading, and by daily writing, you will soon become a whole lot better. When I look back to last year’s posts, I am surprised at how much better I’ve become, over a year of daily “publishing” posts!
4 What should you write about?
Follow your bliss. Choose something you can write about every day without getting bored. I tried 3 blogs: a literary blog, a “life, love, culture and the universe” blog, and a Christian blog. The latter was the most absorbing, so I incorporated the other two into it.
However, while everything I write is from the point of view of a Christian, I do have occasional “secular” posts like this one, or updates on my family, our travels, my reading, and myself!! And a few photo-essays.
The ideal post length is 250 to 800 words, to which I mostly adhere. If the subject is important to me, however, I make the post as long as it needs to be!
4 Blogging is a new form. It is capacious, and as varied as bloggers are. Read other blogs in your niche to find out what the form can do.
5 Comments  
 Leaving comments on other is the best way for a new blogger to introduce herself and build blogging relationships.
For the first two years, I visited the blog of everyone who left me a comment, and left one in turn.
I can no longer do this, alas, partly because I started doing “real” writing in addition to blogging. And partly because of my limitations of organization and energy. And besides, blogging is busy!!
5B Responding to Comments is Sheer Good Manners!
I have neglected responding to comments when too many came at once, and I was busy, and then I fell further behind, while hoping to catch up with the old ones. Some of those commentators have never returned.
I myself never comment again and often won’t revisit a blog if I have left a long, carefully thought out, deeply felt comment, and the author does not respond.
So respond to comments, as long as you possibly can. It’s just good manners!
(Though, as blogs grow, this may not always be possible!)
 6 Twitter and Facebook
I haven’t figured out what I am doing on my Twitter, and just hope I am not annoying people!!  So the only authoritative thing I have to say about Twitter is that I enjoy it!
However, engaging on twitter has been responsible for my blog readership’s tripling in six months.
And it has introduced me to several bloggers, and several interesting people. And I hope to “learn” it.
Facebookis another nice way to meet and keep in touch with bloggers.
Ah, do you see the black hole of the blogosphere opening before you? Seek God as to how much time you should spend reading blogs. I used to limit it to 30 minutes, but now read my favourite blogs as they pop up on Facebook.
Your blog probably needs a Facebook fanpage for the increasingly number of people, who, like me, only read blogs on Facebook.
8 Give and you shall receive.
If you want links, give links. If you want comments, leave comments. If you want page views, read blogs. If you want retweets, retweet. 
I say this shame-facedly, again, as because of limitations of energy and organisation and absorption in my own writing, I am failing on all these counts. When I remember, I try to be generous
9 The Best Blogging Advice: Love your Readers.
Give value. Be a blessing to your readers.
I sometimes write a post for the pleasure of writing and sharing experience and ideas or working something out.
However, I often ask myself: Is this going to help my readers? Be a benefit to them? Inspire them? Do some good?
If not, I put it on the back burner (unless I feel a silly broody love for the idea).
I truly like my readers, those I have met in real life, and those I have met in cyberspace, and want to write things which might be a blessing to them.
10  The greatest pleasure of blogging is the community.
When I come across a blogger on the same wavelength, who writes on the same subjects in the same way, I put them on my “radar,” read their blog, and if possible, try to meet up in real life.
Many writers whose books I have loved have been disappointments in real life. But I have met, oh, at least 20 bloggers in real life, and all of them have been as I imagined from their blogs, lovely, or, in one case, not-lovely but as I expected! Perhaps with daily blogging, it’s harder to keep a mask in place.
The friends I have made through blogging have been one of the best things about blogging!
And, of course, some blogging friendships will help your blog; some will be a delight, though not directly helpful for your writing; and some friends you will be able to help. But, all that is secondary to the joy of friendship!
11 Honest blogging grows your blog most rapidly.
Don’t bother to appear nicer than you are, or more spiritual. It will ring false, and be less interesting. A) People will smell a rat; b) Blogging will no longer be a joy!
Our hearts hunger for truth. To really know people. Their real lives and emotional contours. Memoir is one of the fastest growing genres. An honest blog is captivating. Be yourself, be real, and the note of raw undefended honesty and immediacy will shine through and captivate readers.
It’s important spiritually and for your writing to be honest and real, even if you sometimes disappoint your core audience. I am trying to push through barriers of propriety, and fear of alienating my audience to be more honest.
I am sometimes told, “Anita, this post does not show you in a good light.” And I leave it up, thinking, “Why should I give the impression that I am perfect? It is showing me in an honest light, if not a flattering one!”
Because one person who will not be alienated, but in fact, will be rather pleased by my honesty will be the Lord Jesus (even when I have got my thinking wrong!)
12 Controversy, negativity and attacks get more page views than positivity and inspiration—but at a (too) high price
I occasionally write negative posts for the therapeutic value as I work something out; or because I feel angry and indignant about something. Or because I truly believe hypocrisy or injustice or abuse should be exposed,
Doing negative posts is not wrong. Jesus said lots of negative things about the religious hypocrites of his day, for instance.
But negativity extracts a cost from the blogger, in terms of one’s own mental state and happiness. So I try to minimize them.
I also ignore hostile comments, and try not to get sucked into fruitless arguments and controversies in which I have little interest.
Attack is a double-edged sword. Only use it when it needs to be used!!
Remember what Jesus said about those who take up the sword…
But remember too that he can heal wounds inflicted by swords!
Incidentally, I no longer follow predominantly negative blogs, twitter streams or facebook feeds. I want to keep my thinking as positive as possible. You too will be happier if you do not follow predominantly negative, sarcastic or “bad news” blogs.
13 Track your page views and analytics daily. Understand your audience
Use Google Analytics, and track your stats everyday. The most important metric is Unique Monthly Visitors. Then, when your stats drop, you can use some of these suggestions or Pro-blogger’s suggestions to keep growing.
Also track the page views each post receives. That way, you will understand your audience.
Negativity, attack and scandal always get views, but I attempt to minimize such posts them for the sake of my own soul.
My theological posts surprisingly get a lot of views, perhaps because I tackle theology in a layperson’s language and style. So I am going to do more of them.
Gardening and travel are popular, as well as time and life management and some embarrassingly personal posts.
Monitoring your stats will let you know what your audience loves, and what makes them yaaaaawn!
It will tell you when your titles let you down and sink an otherwise good post. The title is the most important line in the post. Many a good post has vanished because of a boring, non-descriptive title chosen at the last minute. And has been resuscitated with a good title.
14 Design Matters

Everyone likes pretty things.
My blog’s appearance was a weakness for a long time. I am kind of fond of it now, though it can do with improvement.
Please give me some feedback on its appearance!
15 Your Archive will be your Best Friend.
If your blog grows, most of today’s readers will not have heard of you a year ago.
It’s wasteful to write a long beautiful post which will languish unread in your archives. After my second year of blogging, I have started posting about three archive posts each week, which I have freshly edited. I zero in on the main point, cut the fluff and add value. The end result is always a better post, since it retains what has stood the test of a year’s thinking.
Not every post, of course, is worth reposting. I probably repost the best 5 or 10%.
Use Link Within to increase your page views.
 16 Guest Posts grow your blog.
They do take energy and organisation and correspondence (and ironically, for me, more work than writing out my own post!!) and I haven’t done one for a while, but probably will return to them.
I use them when I have a question I want answered. Do the meek inherit the earth? Can the years the locusts have eaten be restored? Can the Lord really renew our strength so that we soar on wings like eagles? Or I have done series on my interests like favourite books or Christian heroes.
17 Pray before you write. Read Scripture before you write.
Doing the former will save you immense time. Your unconscious, or God’s spirit in your unconscious will give you ideas, and sort out the post in the most logical and effective fashion.
Reading Scripture gives me ideas for what to write, and sometimes condemns what I had been planning to write!!
19 I believe a worker is worthy of a hire, and a blogger should earn something from her labours.
I have barely monetized my blog, though have had cheques from Google Adsense, and sold some of my own books through my blog.
I will probably explore ways to monetize my blog.
I would be grateful for your ideas on monetization.
19 All that is alive grows. Beware of plateaus.
Last August, I realized that I had to increase my readership, or I was wasting my time blogging.
And so applied some of these tips. My blog tripled to 15,000 page views a month (according to Blogger stats) within six months. Since mid-Feb, however, I have plateaued.
So if the Lord gives me strength and energy, I will soon make another push.
And I welcome your ideas on how to grow my blog.
20 Have fun.
Blogging is life-enhancing, and has many benefits. And it should be fun.
Don’t hesitate to write the bad posts to get them out of the way, for the good posts to come. The niggling small posts sometimes need to be written to get the skill to think about and write the big posts. And sometimes what we thought was a trivial idea was just the tip of the iceberg of an important post.
If you don’t love it, and are not enjoying it, just stop!! Blogging should be a joy, not a misery.
Though please don’t stop reading my blog.
So, what have I omitted? Please share your tips.


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  1. Florence Achama says

    January 30, 2014 at 4:54 pm

    Hi Anita, thanks for this a lot of great insight. I don’t blog daily but I do blog regularly and have found that it has improved my writing. Blogging actually takes me a lot of time generally because it comes out of my pain experiences and then all the images etc. I was shocked to hear your results using Twitter, I can’t understand it personally – would love to hear how you got it to work for you.

    • Anita Mathias says

      January 30, 2014 at 5:24 pm

      Maybe I’ll write about it some time. Google using social media, like Facebook and Twitter to promote your blog

  2. Debra Seiling says

    January 16, 2013 at 4:23 am

    Thanks for the blogging tips. They are very helpful. Debra Seiling  http://bible-passages.blogspot.com  and  http://christian-overeaters.blogspot.com

    • Anita Mathias says

      January 16, 2013 at 4:12 pm

      Thanks, Debbie. Must rewrite that post sometime, as one keep learning new things, and adopting new best practices as one continues to blog!

  3. Anita Mathias says

    July 20, 2012 at 1:54 pm

    Thanks, Tanya, and thanks for the retweet, which brought some traffic to this old post.

    Thanks for reading, Kathleen, and welcome to my blog. I'd love to be a globe-trotting mum or granny, and do do it as much as I can.

  4. Kathleen Couch says

    July 20, 2012 at 10:39 am

    Hello Anita,
    I am an example of someone who is reading your blog because you followed me on Twitter. This post is very helpful on growing a blog. We have much the same interests, although my blog focuses on travel, and the small things that are the same and different about people and things around the world. I am also a Christian, and often bring that out in my postings. Thank you!

  5. Tanya Marlow says

    July 20, 2012 at 9:41 am

    I'm late to the party, I know, but SO helpful. Thank you – it's awesome to learn from you!

  6. Anita Mathias says

    July 17, 2012 at 10:26 am

    Thanks much, Taylor. And welcome to my blog!

  7. Taylor Hoffman says

    July 17, 2012 at 5:39 am

    Anita-I am new to your blog but delighted I have stumbled upon it. I truly enjoy your perspective and the quality of your writing. Keep up the good work!

  8. Anita Mathias says

    June 28, 2012 at 8:49 pm

    LA, let's meet in semi-realer cyberspace if you're on Facebook. Here's mine https://www.facebook.com/anitamathias

    Lacy, delighted we follow each other on Twitter, and that you liked this post.

    Perpetua, I sometimes get captivated by a blogger's life, point of view, writing style, ideas and insights, and then like to read them whenever I am down, or bored. And yes, so I do like blogs which are updated daily. I should clarify
    in the post, that I meant posting daily for starters, till one develops a winsome blogging style, good writing skills and discipline. As you say, people vary in their blogosphere needs and habits!!

  9. Perpetua says

    June 28, 2012 at 7:44 pm

    You make some good points, Anita, but I do disagree with you about daily posting. Unless a blog is exceptionally good, there is just no way I want to read posts every day from the same blogger. Two or three times a week or even less if the posts are long and thoughtful is about right for me.

    I subscribe to the blogs I follow in Google Reader, so never need to visit a blog just to see whether it's been updated. However, I'm an amateur and am far more interested in the blogging conversation than in anything else, so I guess it's a case of doing what suits one's own situation.

  10. LA says

    June 28, 2012 at 9:33 am

    I like the fact that you are a layperson. Sometimes other priest-blogs I read get so jargon-y that they're hard to follow and I end up getting lost in hopelessly endless mazes of jargon-ed comments. Sometimes I like the mental challenge they pose, but many times I like to read something even more meaningful and relevant like your blog. Thank you for your labors, they are welcomed by this commentor!

  11. Lacy says

    June 28, 2012 at 9:30 am

    Hi Anita!
    We follow each other on Twitter and though I'm not sure how that happened, I'm glad because I really enjoyed this post!
    I just started a blog in order to help me improve my writing skills as I'm hoping to become an editor 🙂
    Even though I didn't start my blog hoping to get many followers, it wouldn't hurt to apply some of these tips! 🙂

  12. Anita Mathias says

    June 28, 2012 at 6:42 am

    Hi Beth, I think the secret of writing every day is “lowering the bar” as to what is “worthy.” There are always things burning in people's hearts. The key to developing the journalling or blogging habit is recording and developing the stray thoughts, perhaps 1 or 5 things one is grateful for, for instance. Then we begin to see life through writerly lenses.

    Wendy, exactly–the hardest part is getting started, and then the world seems full of ideas, and blog posts and inspiration. Daily writing is also the discipline of training oneself to view one's thoughts, and experiences through the lens of one's art form–blogging, or poetry, or the essay (or photo-essays…).

    As to blogging and the priesthood, many of the interesting female–and male–Christian bloggers in the UK are priests. Perhaps the priesthood makes one more reflective?

    Blogging is hard work, and it can take a while to develop your audience, and experience the considerable rewards of blogging, so perhaps its best to ascertain that it is your call, before you carve out the time for it?

    Miss Mollie, thank you for your comment, and I agree:-)

  13. Miss Mollie says

    June 28, 2012 at 2:42 am

    Thank you for this post. It is very helpful. I do think the most important aspects of my blogging is the joy, the connections I am making with people(like your friendship), and the discipline of writing, as well as God teaching me patience. Generosity is the prime focus and I see that in your blog.

  14. Anonymous says

    June 27, 2012 at 9:55 pm

    Hi Anita

    I just wanted to say that I found this blog really helpful. I wish I had more time to just learn how to work out all the technical stuff. And as a priest, I struggle to find time to write, and wonder what kind of a priority blogging should be. I don't think I could write every day, but I hear what you are saying about the dicipline of writing. The hardest part is just getting started. Thanks for addressing some of my questions and for being courageous enough to keep going.

    Many thanks
    Wendy Thomson
    Twitter: Canoewoman

  15. Wendy Thomson says

    June 27, 2012 at 9:44 pm

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  16. Beth says

    June 27, 2012 at 9:37 pm

    LOL…I think I typed “quilty” up there instead of “guilty”. At least it scans.

  17. Beth says

    June 27, 2012 at 9:36 pm

    this makes me feel quilty and inadequate…kinda. I admit to posting erratically, but without much angst about it. Eh. I don't want to just post if I don't have something burning in my heart. Maybe I should…?

  18. Anita Mathias says

    June 27, 2012 at 9:17 pm

    Wow, thanks everyone, so glad you liked the post.

    Thanks, Ang for liking the candour!

    DJV, I am honoured that you look forward to it. No, I have no intention of stopping, as I believe blogging is a calling–though I would love to slow down enough to finish my book:-)

  19. alice5403 says

    June 27, 2012 at 8:56 pm

    Great post Anita. I've been forced to take a break due to changing jobs. Am reinspired and will be back at the weekend. Thanks

  20. djv says

    June 27, 2012 at 8:18 pm

    Hi Anita
    I am hooked by your Blog , in fact I look forward to it , some new challenging thoughts and reflections
    or just some lovely experiences shared with all of us; please dont stop, your blog is a blessing.

  21. J.P. says

    June 27, 2012 at 6:53 pm

    I love this list~especially what you said about how you formed this blog from three. I maintain two now (and one for a business client) but eventually may combine my two into one. I also like what you said about organization and time limits–otherwise, social media tends to take over the day.

    Thanks for the great ideas!

  22. Ang says

    June 27, 2012 at 6:32 pm

    Writing daily can be a challenge, but I understand that consistency is important — thanks for the reminder. 🙂 I always appreciate the honesty and candor in your posts, Anita.

  23. Bethany Austin Smith says

    June 27, 2012 at 2:11 pm

    Great post!

    I just moved away from Blogger because the stat page made me crazy, and I needed a format that didn't have them. I know I can't judge anything I can't measure, but analytics are my biggest weakness. Maybe someday I can get them back. (And yes, the Jeff Goins blogging course is great.)

  24. Penelope Swithinbank says

    June 27, 2012 at 1:28 pm

    Anita, thank you for writing this after I'd asked in my blog yesterday for help in learning to blog! I really appreciate the gentle, honest and inspirational way you have laid it all out so clearly. You have a wonderful way with words anyway (but not numbers it would appear ….!!!! ) and so many of your blogs have been a great help.
    This spirit of generosity within the social media world has really struck home to me recently.
    Thank you!
    – Penelope

  25. Anita Mathias says

    June 27, 2012 at 12:54 pm

    Hi Gillan, (God and Politics)–As long as your blog is growing, you're doing the right things, and don't need to worry about all this. I start trying to “sharpen the saw” when my stats flag.

    Where do I go from here? Well, I hope to keep blogging as long as I am compos mentis, as I love it. And, as I said, the writing part takes less time as I gain experience, while the “social” side (comments, Twitter, FB, meeting people) takes more time.

    I would love to gain the organization to write books as well as blog. And I am slowly becoming more organised and disciplined.

    Diane, indeed, many of these ideas have been written about before, and are second nature if you've been blogging for a while. It so happened that 2-3 people in the last week sort of asked me if I had any useful blogging advice, and I blanked out. So I thought it would be useful to write it out, once and for all.

    Charlie, I am so glad you found me on Twitter. I've only been on for 9 months, and I despaired of being able to say something sensible in 120 characters–but, like anything else, I suppose it comes with practice.

    Thanks so much for your very kind commendation:-)

  26. Charlie Johnson says

    June 27, 2012 at 11:55 am

    This is superb, Anita. One of the most helpful posts I've read on the subject as I tentatively make my way into the blogosphere. I am a good example of most of the errors you so gently but clearly identify!

    You are a pleasure to read, positive and uplifting, but without the saccharine dishonesty that attends so much Christian writing. Your delight in God and creation comes through beautifully. BTW, I'm one who found you on Twitter.

  27. God and Politics in the UK says

    June 26, 2012 at 10:20 pm

    Excellent points Anita. My main problem is lack of time. When time is limited you then have to prioritse which aspects are most important. I'm still working on that one.

    I'm glad you've had success with your blog. I suppose the question is where do you go from here?

  28. Diane Stortz says

    June 26, 2012 at 10:05 pm

    I really like this post, Anita. So many good ideas, some also written about by others, but I like how you've listed them all here and how you share your experience with them.

    I just started up posting again after a couple months' break. I intended to do every day M-F, but have settled on M-W-F for now. I think you ARE right about daily posting though.

    Diane

  29. Anita Mathias says

    June 26, 2012 at 9:49 pm

    Eileen, removing analytics, and ignoring readership is okay for Joyce and Proust and archdruids and geniuses, but for lowly mortal bloggers….

    Ah, if I had the guts to follow the path of genius.

    Path of Treasure, thank you so much!!

  30. path of treasure says

    June 26, 2012 at 9:45 pm

    Excellent suggestions. Thank you for sharing!

  31. Archdruid Eileen says

    June 26, 2012 at 9:41 pm

    So you're saying that removing all analytics and paying no attention to readership was wrong then?

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And so, Jesus states a law of life. Those who broadcast their amazingness will be humbled, since God dislikes—scorns that, as much as people do.  For to trumpet our success, wealth, brilliance, giftedness or popularity is to get distracted from our life’s purpose into worthless activity. Those who love power, who are sure they know best, and who must be the best, will eventually be humbled by God and life. For their focus has shifted from loving God, doing good work, and being a blessing to their family, friends, and the world towards impressing others, being enviable, perhaps famous. These things are houses built on sand, which will crumble when hammered by the waves of old age, infirmity or adversity. 
God resists the proud, Scripture tells us—those who crave the admiration and power which is His alone. So how do we resist pride? We slow down, so that we realise (and repent) when sheer pride sparks our allergies to people, our enmities, our determination to have our own way, or our grandiose ego-driven goals, and ambitions. Once we stop chasing limelight, a great quietness steals over our lives. We no longer need the drug of continual achievement, or to share images of glittering travel, parties, prizes or friends. We just enjoy them quietly. My life is for itself & not for a spectacle, Emerson wrote. And, as Jesus advises, we quit sharp-elbowing ourselves to sit with the shiniest people, but are content to hang out with ordinary people; and then, as Jesus said, we will inevitably, eventually, be summoned higher to the sparkling conversation we craved. 
One day, every knee will bow before the gentle lamb who was slain, now seated on the throne. We will all be silent before him. Let us live gently then, our eyes on Christ, continually asking for his power, his Spirit, and his direction, moving, dancing, in the direction that we sense him move.
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3 days before his death, Jesus rampages through the commercialised temple, overturning the tables of moneychangers. Who gave you the authority to do these things? his outraged adversaries ask. And Jesus shows us how to answer hostile questions. Slow down. Breathe. Quick arrow prayers!
Your enemies have no power over your life that your Father has not permitted them. Ask your Father for wisdom, remembering: Questions do not need to be answered. Are these questioners worthy of the treasures of your heart? Or would that be feeding pearls to hungry pigs, who might instead devour you?
Questions can contain pitfalls, traps, nooses. Jesus directly answered just three of the 183 questions he was asked, refusing to answer some; answering others with a good question.
But how do we get the inner calm and wisdom to recognise
and sidestep entrapping questions? Long before the day of
testing, practice slow, easy breathing, and tune in to the frequency of the Father. There’s no record of Jesus running, rushing, getting stressed, or lacking peace. He never spoke on his own, he told us, without checking in with the Father. So, no foolish, ill-judged statements. Breathing in the wisdom of the Father beside and within him, he, unintimidated, traps the trappers.
Wisdom begins with training ourselves to slow down and ask
the Father for guidance. Then our calm minds, made perceptive, will help us recognise danger and trick questions, even those coated in flattery, and sidestep them or refuse to answer.
We practice tuning in to heavenly wisdom by practising–asking God questions, and then listening for his answers about the best way to do simple things…organise a home or write. Then, we build upwards, asking for wisdom in more complex things.
Listening for the voice of God before we speak, and asking for a filling of the Spirit, which Jesus calls streams of living water within us, will give us wisdom to know what to say, which, frequently, is nothing at all. It will quieten us with the silence of God, which sings through the world, through sun and stars, sky and flowers.
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And since, I’m on social media, if you are the meditating type, here’s a scriptural meditation on not being afraid, while being prudent. https://anitamathias.com/2024/01/03/do-not-be-afraid-but-do-be-prudent/
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Do Not Be Afraid, but Do Be Prudent
“Do not be afraid,” a dream-angel tells Joseph, to marry Mary, who’s pregnant, though a virgin, for in our magical, God-invaded world, the Spirit has placed God in her. Call the baby Jesus, or The Lord saves, for he will drag people free from the chokehold of their sins.
And Joseph is not afraid. And the angel was right, for a star rose, signalling a new King of the Jews. Astrologers followed it, threatening King Herod, whose chief priests recounted Micah’s 600-year-old prophecy: the Messiah would be born in Bethlehem, as Jesus had just been, while his parents from Nazareth registered for Augustus Caesar’s census of the entire Roman world. 
The Magi worshipped the baby, offering gold. And shepherds came, told by an angel of joy: that the Messiah, a saviour from all that oppresses, had just been born.
Then, suddenly, the dream-angel warned: Flee with the child to Egypt. For Herod plans to kill this baby, forever-King.
Do not be afraid, but still flee? Become a refugee? But lightning-bolt coincidences verified the angel’s first words: The magi with gold for the flight. Shepherds
telling of angels singing of coming inner peace. Joseph flees.
What’s the difference between fear and prudence? Fear is being frozen or panicked by imaginary what-ifs. It tenses our bodies; strains health, sleep and relationships; makes us stingy with ourselves & others; leads to overwork, & time wasted doing pointless things for fear of people’s opinions.
Prudence is wisdom-using our experience & spiritual discernment as we battle the demonic forces of this dark world, in Paul’s phrase.It’s fighting with divinely powerful weapons: truth, righteousness, faith, Scripture & prayer, while surrendering our thoughts to Christ. 
So let’s act prudently, wisely & bravely, silencing fear, while remaining alert to God’s guidance, delivered through inner peace or intuitions of danger and wrongness, our spiritual senses tuned to the Spirit’s “No,” his “Slow,” his “Go,” as cautious as a serpent, protected, while being as gentle as a lamb among wolves.
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Jesus came from a Kingdom of voluntary gentleness, in which
Christ, the Lion of Judah, stands at the centre of the throne in the guise of a lamb, looking as if it had been slain. No wonder his disciples struggled with his counter-cultural values. Oh, and we too!
The mother of the Apostles James and John, asks Jesus for a favour—that once He became King, her sons got the most important, prestigious seats at court, on his right and left. And the other ten, who would have liked the fame, glory, power,limelight and honour themselves are indignant and threatened.
Oh-oh, Jesus says. Who gets five talents, who gets one,
who gets great wealth and success, who doesn’t–that the
Father controls. Don’t waste your one precious and fleeting
life seeking to lord it over others or boss them around.
But, in his wry kindness, he offers the ambitious twelve
and us something better than the second or third place.
He tells us how to actually be the most important person to
others at work, in our friend group, social circle, or church:Use your talents, gifts, and energy to bless others.
And we instinctively know Jesus is right. The greatest people in our lives are the kind people who invested in us, guided us and whose wise, radiant words are engraved on our hearts.
Wanting to sit with the cleverest, most successful, most famous people is the path of restlessness and discontent. The competition is vast. But seek to see people, to listen intently, to be kind, to empathise, and doors fling wide open for you, you rare thing!
The greatest person is the one who serves, Jesus says. Serves by using the one, two, or five talents God has given us to bless others, by finding a place where our deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet. By writing which is a blessing, hospitality, walking with a sad friend, tidying a house.
And that is the only greatness worth having. That you yourself,your life and your work are a blessing to others. That the love and wisdom God pours into you lives in people’s hearts and minds, a blessing
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So Jesus makes a beautiful offer to the earnest, moral young man who came to him, seeking a spiritual life. Remarkably, the young man claims that he has kept all the commandments from his youth, including the command to love one’s neighbour as oneself, a statement Jesus does not challenge.
The challenge Jesus does offers him, however, the man cannot accept—to sell his vast possessions, give the money to the poor, and follow Jesus encumbered.
He leaves, grieving, and Jesus looks at him, loves him, and famously observes that it’s easier for a camel to squeeze through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to live in the world of wonders which is living under Christ’s kingship, guidance and protection. 
He reassures his dismayed disciples, however, that with God even the treasure-burdened can squeeze into God’s kingdom, “for with God, all things are possible.”
Following him would quite literally mean walking into a world of daily wonders, and immensely rich conversation, walking through Israel, Lebanon, Syria, and Jordan, quite impossible to do with suitcases and backpacks laden with treasure. 
For what would we reject God’s specific, internally heard whisper or directive, a micro-call? That is the idol which currently grips and possesses us. 
Not all of us have great riches, nor is money everyone’s greatest temptation—it can be success, fame, universal esteem, you name it…
But, since with God all things are possible, even those who waver in their pursuit of God can still experience him in fits and snatches, find our spirits singing on a walk or during worship in church, or find our hearts strangely warmed by Scripture, and, sometimes, even “see” Christ stand before us. 
For Christ looks at us, Christ loves us, and says, “With God, all things are possible,” even we, the flawed, entering his beautiful Kingdom.
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How to Find the Freedom of Forgiveness
Letting go on anger and forgiving is both an emotional transaction & a decision of the will. We discover we cannot command our emotions to forgive and relinquish anger. So how do we find the space and clarity of forgiveness in our mind, spirit & emotions?
When tormenting memories surface, our cortisol, adrenaline, blood pressure, and heart rate all rise. It’s good to take a literally quick walk with Jesus, to calm this neurological and physiological storm. And then honestly name these emotions… for feelings buried alive never die.
Then, in a process called “the healing of memories,” mentally visualise the painful scene, seeing Christ himself there, his eyes brimming with compassion. Ask Christ to heal the sting, to draw the poison from these memories of experiences. We are caterpillars in a ring of fire, as Martin Luther wrote--unable to rescue ourselves. We need help from above.
Accept what happened. What happened, happened. Then, as the Apostle Paul advises, give thanks in everything, though not for everything. Give thanks because God can bring good out of the swindle and the injustice. Ask him to bring magic and beauty from the ashes.
If, like the persistent widow Jesus spoke of, you want to pray for justice--that the swindler and the abusers’ characters are revealed, so many are protected, then do so--but first, purify your own life.
And now, just forgive. Say aloud, I forgive you for … You are setting a captive free. Yourself. Come alive. Be free. 
And when memories of deep injuries arise, say: “No. No. Not going there.” Stop repeating the devastating story to yourself or anyone else. Don’t waste your time & emotional energy, nor let yourself be overwhelmed by anger at someone else’s evil actions. Don’t let the past poison today. Refuse to allow reinjury. Deliberately think instead of things noble, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy.
So keep trying, in obedience, to forgive, to let go of your anger until you suddenly realise that you have forgiven, and can remember past events without agitation. God be with us!
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