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Never Believe the Pronouncements of Theologians if They Conflict with Your Intuitive Moral Sense

By Anita Mathias

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  Never believe pronouncements of theologians if they conflict with your own moral sense.  

I am re-reading John Piper’s extraordinary, honest and remarkably self-analytical account of his racist past.

Jesse Jackson grew up 3 miles across the town from Piper, in Greenville, South Carolina.

Piper writes: Our worlds were so close and yet so far apart. His mother, Helen, loved the same Christian radio station my mother did—WMUU, the voice of Bob Jones University. But there was a big difference. The very school that broadcast all that Bible truth would not admit blacks. And the large, white Baptist church four miles from Jesse Jackson’s home wouldn’t either. Nor would mine.

This was my hometown. And there is no mystery in it as to why a young black man growing up there—or a Martin Luther King growing up in Atlanta a generation earlier—would get his theological education at a liberal institution (such as Chicago Theological Seminary or Crozer Theological Seminary). Our fundamental and evangelical schools—and almost every other institution, especially in the South—were committed to segregation.

Theologians, 50 years ago, were committed to segregation, with a pastiche of Biblical quotes as a theological underpinning!

Treat the pronouncements of theologians with a healthy scepticism.

Encounter Scripture, God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit for yourself. 

* * *

Piper goes on, I was, in those years, manifestly racist. At Wheaton, “I was simply disengaged from the wider social and political world. Large things were happening intellectually and spiritually, but they were happening in the furnace of my soul, not in the fires burning in urban America.

His great awakening came at the Urbana Missions Conference in December 1967.

“Warren Webster, general director of the Conservative Baptist Foreign Mission Society and former missionary to Pakistan, answered a student’s question: What if your daughter falls in love with a Pakistani while you’re on the mission field and wants to marry him?

The question was clearly asked from a standpoint of concern that this would be a racial or ethnic dilemma for Webster. (This was four months before Martin Luther King Jr. was killed.) With great forcefulness, Webster said something like: “Better a Christian Pakistani than a godless white American!”
From that moment, I knew I had a lot of homework to do.
The perceived wrongness of interracial marriage had been for me one of the unshakeable reasons why segregation was right.

* * *

Piper goes on to Fuller Seminary where he writes a paper on inter-racial marriage which he summarises, “The Bible does not oppose or forbid interracial marriages but sees them as a positive good for the glory of Christ” for “the imposing figure of Professor Lewis Smedes.

But Smedes (whose writing on forgiveness I love) “hesitates to give a wholehearted affirmation to the goodness of interracial marriage.” “This is a tough question, I think, especially at the present [1971]. It is extremely hard to see the positive effect of specific interracial marriages” was Smedes’ comment on the young Piper’s paper.

Piper concludes sadly, “I doubt that Smedes would talk this way today (he died December 19, 2002). I don’t know.”

* * *

Theology evolves, theologians evolve. Never assent to any theological formulation which contradicts your own intuitive moral sense, and your own intuitive understanding of God or Christ, as based in Scripture.

Learned theologians assented to the crusades, the persecution of the Galileo, the Inquisition, the demonization of the Jews, the witch trials, the enslavement of Africans, the enslavement of the native people in South America, to colonialism, to Jim Crow laws, to segregation.

* * *

And these are some of the theological questions and debates of our day. When does life begin? When a sperm, invisible to the eye, fertilizes an egg, as small as a grain of pepper? Does this barely visible fertilised egg have exactly the same rights as the mother, a college student, who “stooped to folly,” but knows she cannot bring up a baby well; or a rape victim; or a mother at the end of tether with 4 children? Or not?

Or: Can one be homosexual and a Christian?
Or: Are the world’s 1.62 million Muslims, 1 billion Hindus, and 350 million Buddhists automatically going to hell, because they have never been compellingly told of Jesus Christ (or John Calvin, who believed that that was their eternal destination.)

Or: Are women complementary to men (but, essentially unequal, a second-class gender.)

* * *

If we take a historical look at the pronouncements of theologians, probably half of what they say turns out to be just plain wrong, and is overturned in a matter of decades or centuries.

As our understanding of Jesus and the Christian faith and how it plays out in our world evolves, we discount the ideas which are dated, or gained currency because of the neurotic writings of a dominant, magnetic theologian.

And so today, it’s safest, it’s best, for us to engage with Scripture ourselves, to ask Christ to guide us, and to never accept any pronouncements of the theologians of our day which conflicts with our own moral sense and our serious passionate study of Scripture!

Filed Under: In which I play in the fields of Theology Tagged With: Jesse Jackson, John Piper, Misuse of Scripture, Racism

One way to do (or not to do) Apologetics

By Anita Mathias

A friend was telling me how her Christian son, who wears Christian t-shirts gets hassled by his mates.
An atheist friend keeps sending him articles, disproving the resurrection.
“Well, David, what do you say? Should I send you some articles to prove the resurrection,” she asked.
“Oh, I just tell him to shut up!” he said.

Filed Under: In which I play in the fields of Theology

Christian and Buddhist Solutions to the Problem of Suffering

By Anita Mathias

Carl Bloch






Okay, so we were somewhat early at Heathrow, breaking a bad habit of being the last people to board the plane–just when we hear “passengers Mathias, passengers Mathias.”

And so I wandered through the shops; oh my goodness, what an onslaught of consumerism!
Now I rarely shop. Literally, rarely enter a shop! Roy buys groceries, and most other things. I buy what I need on the internet. (In fact, I moved back to the UK in mid April 2004, and I reflected that the only piece of clothing I have bought in the UK in the last 7 years is a cardigan at Edinburgh Woollen Mills. I have got used to the American catalogues I shopped in LL Bean, Cold water Creek, Norm Thompson, and like a boring stuck-in-the mud have continued shopping there, and have paid shipping and customs duty for the clothes to be sent here. Roy tells me that this does not make economic sense, and he’s probably right, though I just shrug because I hate shopping. I pick up sweaters when we travel—and it’s harder then to resist entering shops because I have two girls.)
And so, the Alladin’s cave of Harrods and other blingy stores really caught my eye.
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“Do you know I haven’t bought any clothes in the UK for the last 7 years,” I said to Roy, in poor brave me tones.  “I don’t even know what my UK size is.” (Well, perhaps that’s just as well!!)
I glance at the price tag on a silk shirt and the drum beat of consumerism began to beat.
Must. Make. More. Money.
                           * * *
Now if it is essential to make money—for instance to  pay for the right school for the girls, albeit private, or for something we really, really want, like our house which we both fell in love with—that dreary drumbeat Must Make More Money can be energizing and creative. I enjoy lying face down, in concentrated prayer, seeking wisdom and creativity if I need money for an altruistic or creative or spiritual or healthy endeavour. Or even to pay bills!

But to buy stuff?
Nope. Condemning myself to make more money to buy pretty stuff is like signing my life away to being pricked by many griefs.
                               * * *
There is another way to deal with the siren call of consumerism and shops with all their pretty glitzy things. The endless black hole of The Next Thing.
Buddha discovered this.
It is a two world koan.
Desire less.
* * *
Buddha, Prince Siddharta, saunters forth from his sheltered palace and sees a sick man, an old man, a dead man. The inevitabilities—sickness (perhaps), aging, and death.
And is this the end of all mortal desire? He meditates under the Bodhi tree in Gaya, and formulates his Four Noble Truths,
Life is suffering.
The root of suffering is desire.
Suffering can be eliminated by eliminating desire.
Desire can be eliminated by the noble eight fold path–right views, aspirations, living, mindfulness, speech, conduct, effort, conscience.
Yeah, nice way to live if you can manage it.
                             * * *
God is just and God is merciful. And so God gives every religion some shadows, some intimations of the truth.
And that is indeed one way to avoid suffering. Reduce your desire. Witness: The subprime crisis and the global credit crunch and economic crisis, unmanageable consumer debt, home repossessions, the whole sorry freight of grief caused by unruly, out of control desires.
Tone down your desires, do not buy things unless you really, really want or need them,and you save yourself a lot of unnecessary  more-month-than-money syndrome, make-more-money slavery.  overwork, debt, anxiety, constrictions, sleeplessness, and sicknesses caused by overwork and worry.

Charles Dickens (who like Chekhov had has health permanently damaged by having to work hard as a young person to help support his family, a feckless family in Dicken’s case) famously formulated one secret to happiness “Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure nineteen six, result happiness. Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure twenty pounds and six, result misery.” Saving 2.5% of one’s income can make the difference between happiness and misery, Dickens guesses.   I now, mercifully, can save a minimum of ten percent of what I earn, and am grateful for this, but there was a tense period of a couple of years when I was establishing my little business, when I did not do so. And so I can second Dickens.
Or to put it another way. Do you want to suffer less? Desire less.
* * *
                                                                  
And what’s the flaw in this noble injunction?
Yeah, tell a woman with PMS to desire less chocolate. Simple, ain’t it?
Tell an overweight person to run and diet until he or she is slim.
 Tell an anxious person to be a bit rational about their anxieties.
Tell an angry person to keep calm.
Tell a disorganized person to do first things first
Or an untidy person to put things in the right place.
Easy, isn’t it.?
Just stop it.
As in this sketch
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The focus of Buddhism is cautious and negative—life is suffering, and we can avoid suffering by avoiding desire. If we want nothing, and love nothing, then nothing can wound us by its loss, brokenness, recalcitrance or betrayal.

However, Lewis famously says in The Four Loves,
There is no safe investment. To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one,  not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness.
But in that casket — safe, dark, motionless, airless — it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy, is damnation. The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love is Hell.
We shall draw nearer to God, not by trying to avoid the sufferings inherent in all loves, but by accepting them and offering them to Him; throwing away all defensive armour. If our hearts need to be broken, and if He chooses this as a way in which they should break, so be it.   
* * *
Christianity has a positive focus. We are not to focus on the negative—on suffering and how to avoid it, not to live our lives in fear of suffering, tiptoeing on eggshells trying to avoid it.
We are to focus on a person. A very creative person (whose creativity is so essential an attribute that he is known as the Creator.
We are to align our lives with his wisdom.
And what will that look like?
Well, since God is infinitely creative, it will look different for each person. For C.S. Lewis, it meant writing, as it does for Michael Wenham of the brave Donkeybody blog, or for me. For Simon Cozens, it is being a missionary to the Japanese. For Beth Moore, writing Bible studies. For Heidi Baker, adopting 10,000 orphans. For my friend and fellow-blogger, Lesley Crawley, pioneer ministry.

So instead of avoiding desire to avoid suffering, we are to follow a person, whose words have been recorded. Certain things will stand out for us in letters of red or gold as the Spirit highlights them. And his spirit fills in the gaps of the written word. Offers specific directions for our lives.
It’s a far better road map than avoiding suffering by avoiding desire, isn’t it?
* * *
What does Christ say about suffering? That some voluntarily chosen suffering is essential to a decent Christian life. Follow him. How? By taking up our cross.
This again will mean different things to different people. For me, who am not particularly disciplined, it means, for starters, staying in the battle to exert self-discipline in what I eat, in trying to keep my body reasonably strong and healthy, in keeping up with the house ( I’m naturally untidy!!), in controlling my speech, annoyances, and moods, in basic self-discipline in sleep wake cycles (I am naturally a night person, but staying up reading or blogging till 2 is not the best thing if one lives with people—neither is it the best way to spend the next morning).  In making as much use as I can of my gifts. All these things give me plenty to be getting on with—and ironically, they are just the starting point of a life of taking up one’s cross and following Jesus.
* * *
What else does Christ say? That suffering is inevitable (John 16:33) This world has a crack in it. It will be redeemed, but while we wait, we groan.  However, we are to be of good cheer, despite the certainty of suffering, because of the power of Christ to give us grace to endure, to change us (and sometimes to change our circumstances). As Paul says, we will be able to handle both being abased and abounding through Christ who strengthens us.
And while we would never choose this refinement, suffering does refine us like diamonds, like gold. It takes its place as black borders, and splashes of red in the tapestry of our lives.
What else does Christianity have to say about the problem of suffering? We might not be told to desire less, but we are certainly told to sin less. Much—though by no means all!!—suffering is self-inflicted through sin– laziness, greed, self-indulgence, meanness. Selfishness. We sow bitter seeds, and sadly eat their fruit.
                            * * *
So while reducing desire reduces suffering, as Buddha said, and as anyone in debt or struggling with decluttering and messy houses can tell you, and while avoiding sin will reduce suffering as any counsellor can tell you, Christianity is not about avoiding, but embracing. Embracing a person, and dancing with him where he leads, sometimes on the mountain tops and sometimes in the valleys, sometimes in the wilderness and deserts, and sometimes through green pastures.
Bless me, oh Lord, and may I dance with you on the heights,  the mountain peaks, though green valleys, quiet waters and places of blessing, but Lord, better the wilderness and desert with you, than the fleshpots of Egypt or the milk and honey of the promised land without you.
                            Amen
                                                                              

Filed Under: Field notes from the Land of Suffering, In which I play in the fields of Theology

There will be the Essence of Dogness in Heaven–C.S. Lewis

By Anita Mathias

 

Jake, my collie, in a buttercup meadow.

I would have immensely enjoyed hearing the feisty C.S. Lewis preach or lecture.

He was a slave to the dog of Mrs. Moore (the mother of the soldier-friend who died in the First World War, whom he  moved in with to “look after” as per his pact with her son.) His brother, Warnie, sardonically comments on the great things Jack might have achieved if he were not always trotting off to get meat from the butchers for the dog, or to walk him.

When a grieving dog-owner asked him if we would be re-united with our pets in heaven, Lewis did not let his lack of acquaintance with that undiscovered country prevent his  having opinions about it. “No,” he said, “not our dogs.” However, he said, there would be “the essence of dogness” in heaven.

I hope he’s right about the Platonic essence of dogness in heaven. Surely he is.

But though there is nothing in Scripture about the resurrection of the dogs, I would love to believe that my dogs past and present will be there in heaven—Rover, Brutus, Juno, Trooper and Jake. They would make my joy complete.

I love my wonderful dog, Jake, whom I got from a rescue, as I have got every dog I have ever owned as an adult. He fell fast in love with me on the day we brought him home 7 years ago, and has been my constant shadow, sleeping at the foot of our bed, following me everywhere, even to the bathroom, constantly repositioning himself to keep a vigilant eye on me. Though what an active collie and a sedentary writer could have in common is one of the mysteries of the universe!!

Filed Under: In which I play in the fields of Theology Tagged With: C. S. Lewis, Pets in Heaven, The essence of dogness

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Hi Friends, I have taped a meditation; do listen a Hi Friends, I have taped a meditation; do listen at this link: https://anitamathias.com/2025/04/08/the-kingdom-of-god-is-here-already-yet-not-yet-here-2/
It’s on the Kingdom of God, of which Christ so often spoke, which is here already—a mysterious, shimmering internal palace in which, in lightning flashes, we experience peace and joy, and yet, of course, not yet fully here. We sense the rainbowed presence of Christ in the song which pulses through creation. Christ strolls into our rooms with his wisdom and guidance, and things change. Our prayers are answered; we are healed; our hearts are strangely warmed. Sometimes.
And yet, we also experience evil within & all around us. Our own sin which can shatter our peace and the trajectory of our lives. And the sins of the world—its greed, dishonesty and environmental destruction.
But in this broken world, we still experience the glory of creation; “coincidences” which accelerate once we start praying, and shalom which envelops us like sudden sunshine. The portals into this Kingdom include repentance, gratitude, meditative breathing, and absolute surrender.
The Kingdom of God is here already. We can experience its beauty, peace and joy today through the presence of the Holy Spirit. But yet, since, in the Apostle Paul’s words, we do not struggle only “against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the unseen powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil,” its fullness still lingers…
Our daughter Zoe was ordained into the Church of E Our daughter Zoe was ordained into the Church of England in June. I have been on a social media break… but … better late than never. Enjoy!
First picture has my sister, Shalini, who kindly flew in from the US. Our lovely cousins Anthony and Sarah flank Zoe in the next picture.
The Bishop of London, Sarah Mullaly, ordained Zoe. You can see her praying that Zoe will be filled with the Holy Spirit!!
And here’s a meditation I’ve recorded, which you might enjoy. The link is also in my profile
https://anitamathias.com/2024/11/07/all-those-who-exalt-themselves-will-be-humbled-the-humble-will-be-exalted/
I have taped a meditation on Jesus statement in Ma I have taped a meditation on Jesus statement in Matthew 23, “For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
Do listen here. https://anitamathias.com/2024/11/07/all-those-who-exalt-themselves-will-be-humbled-the-humble-will-be-exalted/
Link also in bio.
And so, Jesus states a law of life. Those who broadcast their amazingness will be humbled, since God dislikes—scorns that, as much as people do.  For to trumpet our success, wealth, brilliance, giftedness or popularity is to get distracted from our life’s purpose into worthless activity. Those who love power, who are sure they know best, and who must be the best, will eventually be humbled by God and life. For their focus has shifted from loving God, doing good work, and being a blessing to their family, friends, and the world towards impressing others, being enviable, perhaps famous. These things are houses built on sand, which will crumble when hammered by the waves of old age, infirmity or adversity. 
God resists the proud, Scripture tells us—those who crave the admiration and power which is His alone. So how do we resist pride? We slow down, so that we realise (and repent) when sheer pride sparks our allergies to people, our enmities, our determination to have our own way, or our grandiose ego-driven goals, and ambitions. Once we stop chasing limelight, a great quietness steals over our lives. We no longer need the drug of continual achievement, or to share images of glittering travel, parties, prizes or friends. We just enjoy them quietly. My life is for itself & not for a spectacle, Emerson wrote. And, as Jesus advises, we quit sharp-elbowing ourselves to sit with the shiniest people, but are content to hang out with ordinary people; and then, as Jesus said, we will inevitably, eventually, be summoned higher to the sparkling conversation we craved. 
One day, every knee will bow before the gentle lamb who was slain, now seated on the throne. We will all be silent before him. Let us live gently then, our eyes on Christ, continually asking for his power, his Spirit, and his direction, moving, dancing, in the direction that we sense him move.
Link to new podcast in Bio https://anitamathias.co Link to new podcast in Bio https://anitamathias.com/2024/02/20/how-jesus-dealt-with-hostility-and-enemies/
3 days before his death, Jesus rampages through the commercialised temple, overturning the tables of moneychangers. Who gave you the authority to do these things? his outraged adversaries ask. And Jesus shows us how to answer hostile questions. Slow down. Breathe. Quick arrow prayers!
Your enemies have no power over your life that your Father has not permitted them. Ask your Father for wisdom, remembering: Questions do not need to be answered. Are these questioners worthy of the treasures of your heart? Or would that be feeding pearls to hungry pigs, who might instead devour you?
Questions can contain pitfalls, traps, nooses. Jesus directly answered just three of the 183 questions he was asked, refusing to answer some; answering others with a good question.
But how do we get the inner calm and wisdom to recognise
and sidestep entrapping questions? Long before the day of
testing, practice slow, easy breathing, and tune in to the frequency of the Father. There’s no record of Jesus running, rushing, getting stressed, or lacking peace. He never spoke on his own, he told us, without checking in with the Father. So, no foolish, ill-judged statements. Breathing in the wisdom of the Father beside and within him, he, unintimidated, traps the trappers.
Wisdom begins with training ourselves to slow down and ask
the Father for guidance. Then our calm minds, made perceptive, will help us recognise danger and trick questions, even those coated in flattery, and sidestep them or refuse to answer.
We practice tuning in to heavenly wisdom by practising–asking God questions, and then listening for his answers about the best way to do simple things…organise a home or write. Then, we build upwards, asking for wisdom in more complex things.
Listening for the voice of God before we speak, and asking for a filling of the Spirit, which Jesus calls streams of living water within us, will give us wisdom to know what to say, which, frequently, is nothing at all. It will quieten us with the silence of God, which sings through the world, through sun and stars, sky and flowers.
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And since, I’m on social media, if you are the meditating type, here’s a scriptural meditation on not being afraid, while being prudent. https://anitamathias.com/2024/01/03/do-not-be-afraid-but-do-be-prudent/
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Do Not Be Afraid, but Do Be Prudent
“Do not be afraid,” a dream-angel tells Joseph, to marry Mary, who’s pregnant, though a virgin, for in our magical, God-invaded world, the Spirit has placed God in her. Call the baby Jesus, or The Lord saves, for he will drag people free from the chokehold of their sins.
And Joseph is not afraid. And the angel was right, for a star rose, signalling a new King of the Jews. Astrologers followed it, threatening King Herod, whose chief priests recounted Micah’s 600-year-old prophecy: the Messiah would be born in Bethlehem, as Jesus had just been, while his parents from Nazareth registered for Augustus Caesar’s census of the entire Roman world. 
The Magi worshipped the baby, offering gold. And shepherds came, told by an angel of joy: that the Messiah, a saviour from all that oppresses, had just been born.
Then, suddenly, the dream-angel warned: Flee with the child to Egypt. For Herod plans to kill this baby, forever-King.
Do not be afraid, but still flee? Become a refugee? But lightning-bolt coincidences verified the angel’s first words: The magi with gold for the flight. Shepherds
telling of angels singing of coming inner peace. Joseph flees.
What’s the difference between fear and prudence? Fear is being frozen or panicked by imaginary what-ifs. It tenses our bodies; strains health, sleep and relationships; makes us stingy with ourselves & others; leads to overwork, & time wasted doing pointless things for fear of people’s opinions.
Prudence is wisdom-using our experience & spiritual discernment as we battle the demonic forces of this dark world, in Paul’s phrase.It’s fighting with divinely powerful weapons: truth, righteousness, faith, Scripture & prayer, while surrendering our thoughts to Christ. 
So let’s act prudently, wisely & bravely, silencing fear, while remaining alert to God’s guidance, delivered through inner peace or intuitions of danger and wrongness, our spiritual senses tuned to the Spirit’s “No,” his “Slow,” his “Go,” as cautious as a serpent, protected, while being as gentle as a lamb among wolves.
Link to post with podcast link in Bio or https://a Link to post with podcast link in Bio or https://anitamathias.com/2023/09/22/dont-walk-away-from-jesus-but-if-you-do-he-still-looks-at-you-and-loves-you/
Jesus came from a Kingdom of voluntary gentleness, in which
Christ, the Lion of Judah, stands at the centre of the throne in the guise of a lamb, looking as if it had been slain. No wonder his disciples struggled with his counter-cultural values. Oh, and we too!
The mother of the Apostles James and John, asks Jesus for a favour—that once He became King, her sons got the most important, prestigious seats at court, on his right and left. And the other ten, who would have liked the fame, glory, power,limelight and honour themselves are indignant and threatened.
Oh-oh, Jesus says. Who gets five talents, who gets one,
who gets great wealth and success, who doesn’t–that the
Father controls. Don’t waste your one precious and fleeting
life seeking to lord it over others or boss them around.
But, in his wry kindness, he offers the ambitious twelve
and us something better than the second or third place.
He tells us how to actually be the most important person to
others at work, in our friend group, social circle, or church:Use your talents, gifts, and energy to bless others.
And we instinctively know Jesus is right. The greatest people in our lives are the kind people who invested in us, guided us and whose wise, radiant words are engraved on our hearts.
Wanting to sit with the cleverest, most successful, most famous people is the path of restlessness and discontent. The competition is vast. But seek to see people, to listen intently, to be kind, to empathise, and doors fling wide open for you, you rare thing!
The greatest person is the one who serves, Jesus says. Serves by using the one, two, or five talents God has given us to bless others, by finding a place where our deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet. By writing which is a blessing, hospitality, walking with a sad friend, tidying a house.
And that is the only greatness worth having. That you yourself,your life and your work are a blessing to others. That the love and wisdom God pours into you lives in people’s hearts and minds, a blessing
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So Jesus makes a beautiful offer to the earnest, moral young man who came to him, seeking a spiritual life. Remarkably, the young man claims that he has kept all the commandments from his youth, including the command to love one’s neighbour as oneself, a statement Jesus does not challenge.
The challenge Jesus does offers him, however, the man cannot accept—to sell his vast possessions, give the money to the poor, and follow Jesus encumbered.
He leaves, grieving, and Jesus looks at him, loves him, and famously observes that it’s easier for a camel to squeeze through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to live in the world of wonders which is living under Christ’s kingship, guidance and protection. 
He reassures his dismayed disciples, however, that with God even the treasure-burdened can squeeze into God’s kingdom, “for with God, all things are possible.”
Following him would quite literally mean walking into a world of daily wonders, and immensely rich conversation, walking through Israel, Lebanon, Syria, and Jordan, quite impossible to do with suitcases and backpacks laden with treasure. 
For what would we reject God’s specific, internally heard whisper or directive, a micro-call? That is the idol which currently grips and possesses us. 
Not all of us have great riches, nor is money everyone’s greatest temptation—it can be success, fame, universal esteem, you name it…
But, since with God all things are possible, even those who waver in their pursuit of God can still experience him in fits and snatches, find our spirits singing on a walk or during worship in church, or find our hearts strangely warmed by Scripture, and, sometimes, even “see” Christ stand before us. 
For Christ looks at us, Christ loves us, and says, “With God, all things are possible,” even we, the flawed, entering his beautiful Kingdom.
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How to Find the Freedom of Forgiveness
Letting go on anger and forgiving is both an emotional transaction & a decision of the will. We discover we cannot command our emotions to forgive and relinquish anger. So how do we find the space and clarity of forgiveness in our mind, spirit & emotions?
When tormenting memories surface, our cortisol, adrenaline, blood pressure, and heart rate all rise. It’s good to take a literally quick walk with Jesus, to calm this neurological and physiological storm. And then honestly name these emotions… for feelings buried alive never die.
Then, in a process called “the healing of memories,” mentally visualise the painful scene, seeing Christ himself there, his eyes brimming with compassion. Ask Christ to heal the sting, to draw the poison from these memories of experiences. We are caterpillars in a ring of fire, as Martin Luther wrote--unable to rescue ourselves. We need help from above.
Accept what happened. What happened, happened. Then, as the Apostle Paul advises, give thanks in everything, though not for everything. Give thanks because God can bring good out of the swindle and the injustice. Ask him to bring magic and beauty from the ashes.
If, like the persistent widow Jesus spoke of, you want to pray for justice--that the swindler and the abusers’ characters are revealed, so many are protected, then do so--but first, purify your own life.
And now, just forgive. Say aloud, I forgive you for … You are setting a captive free. Yourself. Come alive. Be free. 
And when memories of deep injuries arise, say: “No. No. Not going there.” Stop repeating the devastating story to yourself or anyone else. Don’t waste your time & emotional energy, nor let yourself be overwhelmed by anger at someone else’s evil actions. Don’t let the past poison today. Refuse to allow reinjury. Deliberately think instead of things noble, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy.
So keep trying, in obedience, to forgive, to let go of your anger until you suddenly realise that you have forgiven, and can remember past events without agitation. God be with us!
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