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One’s Trajectory is What Matters, Not Where One Currently is.

David is my favourite Old Testament figure; and not surprisingly, because more than any other Old Testament figure, he is a prototype of Christ.

I spoke a couple of years ago on the life of David from Kings and Samuel; Roy, Zoe and friends who were there often mention some of the ideas.

One of the things which struck me was how your trajectory is far more important than where you currently are.

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Saul, to all appearances, was at the top of the heap. He had power, prestige, authority, wealth, good looks, a family, kingship and a palace.

And yet… and yet. He was tormented by jealousy and insecurity. He could presciently see what God was doing and did not like it one bit. He could see that in strange and inexplicable ways, God’s favour and blessing was on David.

And so he hounds David. He seeks to kill him. And in the short run, he gets his way. David is on the run. He hides in caves, afraid, cold and hungry. While Saul is at the very top of the heap, David, declared the enemy of the King of Israel–without resources, patrons, wealth, power or position–is at the very bottom of the heap.

As we read Kings, we realize that where Saul and David stood meant nothing. What mattered was their trajectory–where they were going.

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Two phrases often repeated in the Book of Samuel and the Book of Kings give us an insight into why David’s life was successful in the eyes of God and man, and why he eventually was blessed in his military, political, administrative, literary and spiritual endeavours.

“God was with David.” ” David walked with the Lord.”

And because of that, we also read this frequently repeated phrase, “the House of David grew stronger and stronger, and the House of Saul grew weaker and weaker.”

What? The house of the down and out, the man who had no resources, no wealth, no political support, nothing but the Lord grew stronger and stronger? While the house of the King, with wealth, power, glory, courtiers, sycophants, tax revenue grows weaker and weaker?

Because David walked with God. Because God was with David.

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That study had quite an impact on me.In some important ways, I wasn’t where I wanted to be as I prepared the study, and I realized forcibly that what matters is not where one is, but where one is going. One’s trajectory is what matters, far more than one’s current position.

As long as I was walking with God in humility and repentance, trying to do his will, continually revising my life when I was not doing so, seeking his blessing, then, if it pleased him, “my house” like David’s, would grow stronger and stronger.

So be it.

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The Questions Jesus Asked

By Anita Mathias

Did I not tell you that if you believed you would see the glory of God

The questions Jesus asked in the Gospel of John

I was preparing these for a Bible study I’m resourcing and thought they were very penetrating and hard-hitting questions!

1 Do you want to get well, John 5:6

² How can you believe since you accept glory from one another but do not seek the glory that comes from the only God. John 5:44

³ Where shall we buy bread for these people to eat? ⁶ He asked this only to test him, for he already had in mind what he was going to do. John 6:6

4 John 6: ⁵⁵ Unless you eat my flesh and drink my blood, you have no life in you. For my flesh is real food and my blood is real drink. ⁵⁷ Just as the living Father sent me and I live because of the Father, so the one who feeds on me will live because of me.

⁶⁰ On hearing it, many of his disciples said, “This is a hard teaching. Who can accept it?” ⁶¹ Aware that his disciples were grumbling about this, Jesus said to them, “Does this offend you?

⁵ “You do not want to leave too, do you?” Jesus asked the Twelve. John 6:75

6 “Did I not tell you that if you believe, you will see the glory of God?” John 11:40

7 John 13:12 “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked them. ¹³ “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. ¹⁴ Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. ¹⁵ I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.¹⁷ Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.

⁸ Again he asked them, “Who (what) is it you want?”John 18: 7

⁹ He asked her, “Woman, why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?” John 20:15

10 John 21: ⁵ He called out to them, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?”

“No,” they answered.

⁶ He said, “Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some.” When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish.

¹¹ Again Jesus said, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?”

¹² When Peter saw him, he asked, “Lord, what about him?”

²² Jesus answered, “If I want him to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? You must follow me.”

Plan A, Plan B, Plan Z, and Plans for Good

By Anita Mathias

My daughter, Zoe, is doing her GCSEs.

Her academically selective school, which generally sends 34-40% of its students to Oxbridge is a bit of a academic hot-house.

So much of her year has a Plan A. All 10 A stars. And then a Plan A for the A-levels. All 4 A stars. And then a Plan A. Oxbridge.

And then, Plans A diverge. Stellar careers in politics, law, academia, the arts, media, journalism, business…

Zoe’s post-uni plans are different. She is 16, but mentions things like perhaps being a priest, because she loves Scripture and people, or working with Heidi Baker in Mozambique, or youth ministry. She is just 16, of course.
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Very few people live their lives in Plan A. At 17, my Plan A, oddly, was to become a nun, and work with Mother Teresa’s Missionaries of Charity. Well, I entered the novitiate, but left 14 months later, when I was 18.

Plan A was then academics. I read English at Somerville College, Oxford, and was accepted for a Ph.D at Oxford University, contingent on getting a First. I didn’t.

Plan A was then becoming a writer. I published articles in various prestigious places, won prizes, including a $20,000 National Endowment for the Arts award. I got a dream editor and agent. But my manuscript was not the one they envisioned, and in the process of revising it, I got depressed, and abandoned it (for a season).
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Which brings me to now. I am definitely living in Plan B. It’s not my plan A which would have involved me being a successful writer by now.

I am leading an interesting life, a happy life. I like it. It’s just not Plan A.

Almost nobody lives in Plan A. For many of us, it is Plan B, at best
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Plan B is not necessarily a bad place to live. It is where our real life happens.

Plan B saw me go to graduate school in America, where I grew close to Roy, now my husband. I found myself stymied in my manuscript, and abandoned it; I used my energy to found a publishing company, and now, when I go back to my manuscript, I’ll self-publish it. It won’t be perfect, but it will be exactly the book I want to write.

And the publishing company has opened other doors, such as that of travel, which is a happy, refreshing and revitalizing and educational experience for me. We tend to visit Europe, or go further afield during every school half-term or holiday, 5-6 times a year of late. We could not have afforded that without running a small business.
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Why should we assume that we are all-wise, that our Plan A is necessarily the very best thing for us?

For one, our Plan A rarely involves character. It is often a scheme that would please one’s parents, and dazzles one’s friends and contemporaries.

Some of us, on the other hand, live in Plan Z. I know a young mum dying of cancer; people dying of debilitating illnesses; friends who have never married, but would have liked to; who have not been able to have children; who are struggling to adopt. The very worst thing they could imagine has happened to them. And most of us have or will visit the Land of Plan Z, the land of suffering, for a season.

It is in the shadows of disappointment and heartbreak, of things not working out as they should, that we develop character: endurance, toughness, optimism, compassion for those who are walking the same shadowy path, knowledge of what it is to suffer.
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I have a Plan A for the second half of my life. It involves health, happiness, fruitfulness, happiness for my husband and children, the continued success of our family business, and God’s blessing on my writing. It involves some travel, much gardening, much reading and writing.

I believe I can ask God to bless it.
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The Bible has much to say about prayer and the desires of our hearts, about prayer and Plan A.

Moses catching sight of God burst out with, “Show me your glory.” And the Lord replies, “I will do the very thing you have asked, because I am pleased with you, and I know you by name.” (Exodus 33:17).

Abraham in prayer whittles God down from a promise to not destroy the city if 50 righteous people could be found to an assurance that his family would be saved. Hezekiah’s prayers in Kings add 15 years to his life.

Prayer is more likely to bring Plan A into existence.

I like this Davidic prayer, May he give you the desire of your heart, and make all your plans succeed. “Psalm 20:4. Since I am rather fond of my own current Plan A, I am praying that somehow God will bless it.

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However, since I myself, and most people I know, live in Plan B at best, that is the plan to thrive and be happy in, since that is our life.

Ultimately, because our wisdom is limited, but God’s is not, what really matters is that we live in God’s Plan A for the rest of our lives, “plans for good and not for evil, to give us a future and a hope.” (Jer 29:11).

May it be so.

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E J H Nash, the Man who Converted Justin Welby, Nicky Gumbel, John Stott, David Watson and Michael Green

By Anita Mathias

Nash, wikipedia

I listened to Michael Green preach on Sunday at St. Andrew’s, Oxford. I last heard him, oh 25 years ago, as an undergraduate. I remember dropping in to St. Aldate’s when I was feeling overwhelmed because a lot of my friends went there. I wouldn’t have called myself a Christian, though his sermons did make perfect sense to me, and sort of inspired me to do the right thing.

He spoke on the next chapter in the book of the Bible we were going through, Nehemiah 2. I thought it was excellent–a combination of good vivid story telling, a magnetic personality which encourages one to pay attention, and the ability to draw practical spiritual inferences from a historic text.

What was my “take-away”? That God is sovereign even when everything seems to be against us. That an arrow prayer straight from our heart to God’s can change things at any time. That nothing is hopeless as long as God is around. That God can penetrate and change human history.

Michael Green is 81. I would love to be so fresh and green, bearing fruit at 81. And so, I guess I need to do two things–make sure I eat healthily, and exercise now. And FAR more important, I need to put my roots into the stream of God so that I will be able to draw nourishment from his living waters when I am old. (Psalm 1, Ezekiel 47).
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And so, at home, I googled Michael Green as one does these days!. He was converted –along with John Stott, David Watson and Nicky Gumbel by a man I had never heard of–unlike his list of converts. Someone called EJH Nash, or Bash who ran a camp ministry at Iwerne Minster. David Watson is meant to have attended 35 camps in five years.

Nash focussed on reaching “the best boys from the best schools.” He devoted his life to preaching a simple evangelical gospel at the top 30 public schools. He also influenced the University Christian Unions a particularly good example being the Cambridge Inter-Collegiate Christian Union “where between 1935 and 1939 all CICCU’s presidents were ‘Bash’ campers, and the union was marked by his methods: a very simple evangelical gospel; meticulous preparation; a wariness of emotions or intellect and assiduous “personal work” before and after conversion.” He was famous for his sense of humour, and his ability to create a happy atmosphere.

Wow! It strikes me that the man must have really loved Christ to devote his life not to speaking, writing and media appearances as so many of today’s Christian superstars do, but to training the next generation of Christian leaders, who in turn will influence the next generation or two.

It was a highly focussed strategy: “the best boys from the best schools.” It was not Jesus’s strategy, though. Jesus appeared to take riff-raff who had tough characters–but hey, who can argue with success.

The mystery of influence! Billy Graham was converted by a travelling preacher called Mordechai Ham. Ham was tired, and weary and almost did not want to go on. His journal shows his despairing cries to the Lord for fruit. On the next night, Billy Graham came to his tent.

Our lives belong to Christ. Whether we hold up the torch of our own work to shine brightly–or pass it
on to another–does not really matter.

And interestingly, I could not easily find a reliable image of the man. When I typed his name, I saw images of Michael Green, John Stott, and David Watson. “Bash,” with his famous sense of humour, may have enjoyed this!!

Judging others opens you up to judgement: Romans, Blog Through the Bible Project

By Anita Mathias

Romans 1 28–2:3

28 Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done. ²⁹ They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, ³⁰ slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; ³¹ they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy. ³² Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.

Because men did not treasure God, God abandons them to their own devices.

And so man continues to do what he knows is wrong. In his distorted thinking, the end justifies the means. And as long as they are successful, rich and prominent, people approve of those who might be “greedy, quarrelsome, envious, deceitful, malicious, gossipy, slanderous, arrogant, boastful, and unfaithful.”

Romans 2

¹ You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things. ² Now we know that God’s judgment against those who do such things is based on truth. ³ So when you, a mere human being, pass judgment on them and yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God’s judgment?
⁵ But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against yourself for the day of God’s wrath, when his righteous judgment will be revealed.

People–and the correctness of this comment can be empirically proven Reinhold Neibuhr said–are filled with every kind of greed, envy, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, ³⁰ slanderers, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; ³¹ they have no fidelity, no love, no mercy.

Everyone, to a greater or lesser degree is guilty of these things.

And since all of us, to a greater or lesser degree, are guilty of evil, greed, envy, strife, deceit, malice, gossip, slander, insolence, arrogance and boastfulness, we have no excuse when we judge someone else.

In the act of judging them, of commenting on the evil of their actions, we are opening ourselves up to especial judgment since we who judge them have sinned too–and ironically, and oddly, often have committed the same sins we vehemently condemn in others.

And so in judging another, we are opening ourselves to judgement. ³ So when you, a mere human being, pass judgment on them and yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God’s judgment?

Jesus reminds us of this when he cautions, in Luke 6, “³⁷ “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

(Further thoughts on judging and condemning)

Lord, open my eyes to when I might be judging and condemning others. Give me your merciful spirit.

Chronos and Chairos: Time and God’s Time

By Anita Mathias

There were two words for time in koine Greek, Chairos and Chronos. Chronos was clock time, sequential time. Chairos was special: “the right time,” God’s Time.

Jesus points out the difference when he tells his disciples. “The right time for me has not yet come; for you any time is right,” John 7.6. In fact, there are constant references throughout the Gospel to his time not having come yet, as when Mary tries to hurry her miraculous baby into action in the marriage of Cana.

Chairos. Chronos. In my own life, I am learning to wait for Chairos, the right time, God’s time.

I have many ideas, many things I want to do. I can’t do, or even start all of them right now. And that’s where waiting for the chairos time, the right time, God’s time comes in.
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When the girls were young, I desperately wanted to write, and trying to do so with young children, exhausted me, and not that much got read, or written. The state of the house was a constant source of irritation and contention, and in retrospect, perhaps I should have prioritised getting the house together (though that is easier said than done).

Now, however, is the chairos time to write. I don’t have other duties or demands on me; the girls are quite independent, Roy’s does not need support from me in what he does; in fact, having retired early, he is able to run the house and the girls, and support me a bit in my work.
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Both of us have lots of ideas to do with the expansion of our publishing company. However, each time, I pray about it, I sense it is not yet the chairos time to expand. Roy took early retirement in August 2010, after 21 years as a mathematician–all-consuming work. We are still recovering: sorting out the garage and barn in which we have boxes still not unpacked since we moved here from America in 2004!!, our investments could be looked at; the house could do with a bit more organizing and decluttering; we want a large vegetable garden. There’s paper work, tax stuff to worked on. The business has some nuts and bolts which could be oiled. Roy wants to see to all this…

We talked over our lives with an older and wiser friend, who suggested that when one establishes the Kingdom of God (order, tidyness) in one’s external surroundings, other things fall into place. This would not resonate with everyone. It resonated with me. I see this everywhere. I am an organic gardener. If one gets the soil right and fertile, the bounteous crops automatically fall into place.

So it’s not yet chairos time to expand our business in the same or a slightly different direction. Soon, however–in a matter of weeks or months, it will be.
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When it is God’s time, it’s amazing how everything falls into place. Finance comes, connections, friends, people appear, out of the blue, to help you, there are coincidences–God-incidences. So it is best to wait for chairos time before you force something through.

And the concept of chairos time explains why sometimes one might wait and pray a very long time for something to happen–with no apparent results–and then it happens very quickly. For me, the times when things fall into place very rapidly is a hallmark of God’s activity.
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I think of a reflection by Bob Pierce, founder of World Vision.

God answers all prayer. He does not answer our selfish, materialistic begging. He does not move into our sinful situation. He moves us out of our sinful situation into Himself. God sometimes moves slowly. Sometimes we don’t lack faith, but patience. Wait patiently for Him, and He will give you your heart’s desire.

1) if the request is not right, He will answer, “No.”

2) If the time is not right, He will answer, “Slow.”

3) When you are not right, He will answer, “Grow.”

4) When the request, the time and you are right, God will say, “Go.”

That’s when miracles happen.
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I have experienced God’s go, Chairos time a few times. I had a very stimulating time as an undergraduate in Oxford, almost like coming to life. And then, I moved to America, where we lived for 17 years, 12 of them in Williamsburg, Virginia. (In fact, I have lived longer in Williamsburg than anywhere else as an adult.) I did not like living in America, and I particularly, intensely, disliked living in Williamsburg. I never felt at home there, as if I belonged–and that was, of course, was because I did not.

Oddly, I felt home-sick not for India, but for Oxford, where, for some reason, I felt comfortable, as I did belong. A place were eccentricity is the norm, where conversations heady as champagne are not infrequent, with as much culture per square foot as New York or London–but so much easier to get to.

I hoped to return to Oxford for many years, but did not pray for it, since I saw no concrete way in which I could do so.
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I used to find winters depressing in Virginia, probably because I stayed indoors so much. One November, I went on an individual retreat at Richmond Hill, Richmond. I probably planned to stay the week. However, I came across a book called Lift up your Eyes, by Glenn Clark about prayer. It goes through the different things the Father desires to give us –ideas, creativity, opulence and riches (if we desire them!!), friends.

I left within 24 hours. As I read that book, I felt I had found the key I had been seeking, the missing link.

I had been hoping, not praying, for so many things. I had the horizontal view, not the vertical view. I needed to lift up my eyes to the hills.

And so I did!
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I put moving to Oxford on my prayer list in December 2003. In April 2004, we were in England, and we since we now have permanent residency, we are unlikely to voluntarily move, unless God taps me on my shoulder with new marching orders. (Please don’t Lord; please leave the boundary lines set in these pleasant places.)

I had wanted to leave Williamsburg for the 12 years I lived there. I really disliked it. But things happened spiritually in those desert-ish years. When I came I was a Christian in a sense that I spent 30 minutes a day in prayer and Bible study, but God was not as central to my thoughts as he is now, I did not live in the presence of God as much as I do now, I was more of a reed shaken in the wind, than someone living in the waterfall of God’s presence, her feet on the rock.

In Williamsburg, I discovered the strength of Scripture, and started devoting 90 minutes to prayer and Bible study, no matter what else I had to do, no matter whether I did anything else significant that day or not.

I found a mentor, who went through the Gospels with me and Roy bi-weekly for five years, as well as a theology course called Sonship which he had co-written. I met weekly with another mentor, Lolly Dunlap (obit). I taught several bible studies, and gained much from my immersion in the Bible. I spoke at various church events, and gained some practice in communicating my enthusiasm and passion for prayer and scripture.

And then, slowly, it became clear that it was time to leave. I had changed. I was different. And then all sorts of unlikely things happened very quickly. Roy won a prize for the best paper published in a scientific journal in the last three years, and various other prizes for some ground-breaking work. He was elected to the Board of Directors of the International Linear Algebra Society, co-edited a successful book, was elected to various boards, won prestigious grants including a 100K one from the National Science Foundation to go anywhere he liked for a year and study. Suddenly, job offers flowed in, from Canada, and yes, the UK. We came to the UK, where he was a Distinguished Visitor at the Univ. of Manchester, and we used the NSF grant to spend a year at the Mathematical Institute at Oxford. Within a year of my prayer, I was in Oxford, and have never left.

And the last seven years in Oxford have been incredibly busy, but also creative. I have published two books, I have founded a publishing company starting with, like, zero business experience, I have become a blogger…
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I give several other examples of how things tarry, then happen, very rapidly when it is chairos time, but I won’t ramble further.

These two words, chairos, chronos keep recurring in thoughts.

Roy and I are fairly energetic and there are so many things we want to do all at once–expand the garden, the business… That’s why it’s becoming more important for me to check in with God on a daily/weekly basis to get his ideas and his perspective on what I should be doing.

First things first is the title of a book by Stephen Covey, though Jesus, of course, concluded his sermon on the mount with the same thought. Seek first the Kingdom of God, and his righteousness, and all these things (the things the pagans run after) will be added to you.

The thought does simplify prioritizing. The Kingdom of God on a micro-level, i.e. in each person’s life, will look slightly different. It basically means what your life would look like if Christ were ruling it/in it. For some it would mean evangelism, or feeding the poor, or preaching. For me, it would look like peace, quiet, domestic order, harmonious relationships, and using “that one talent which is death to hide” i.e. writing.

And knowing whether it is the chairos time to do something, embark on a new project, is partly determined by whether doing so contribute to ushering in, or retarding the Kingdom of God, the reign of God in my life.

And now at last, it is the chairos time for me to write–and so I just have to shrug off distraction–and get down to it.

Family and Misc. Catch-Up

By Anita Mathias

Well, Roy and I are in North Wales, enjoying a few days sans children. Immensely quiet. We passed through breaktakingly beautiful countryside on our drive here, through Snowdonia National Park. Lots of impossibly small lambs.

We are here to walk in Bodnant Gardens, and perhaps some other gardens and National Trust Properties here.

Zoe is in the throes of her G.C.S.E’s. Two weeks down, three to go. So far, so good.

Irene had a sleepover for her 12th birthday. In a tent in our orchard. Everyone survived, and we even got a little sleep.

We will have two new additions to our family next month–two new ducklings. Can’t wait. The farmer is going to hand them over when they are six week old. Khaki Campbells. We’ve previously had Aylesbury ducks, which we loved. Let’s hope these are equally wonderful.

We are working very hard restoring our old rambling garden, which has been much neglected. Pictures to follow soon.

It’s half-term for Whitsun in England. We are in a relatively calm, sunny place, in every way–and for that, we are grateful!
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Ten Spiritual Lessons I’ve Learned from Running a Small Business

By Anita Mathias

1) Everything starts with a good idea. And good ideas can be birthed in periods of intensive prayer.

2) There is no area of our lives which God cannot invade.

Interestingly, it was a bit of a cognitive shift for me to realize that God cares about the business I run–about something so mundane as money–and about how I run it because he cares about me.

3 Good ideas are not born in a vacuum. They rise out of the ashes of other things you have tried, and at which you might have failed.

It’s rare that people stumble upon the right thing immediately–the right genre to write in, the right business, even the perfect arrangement of plants in a garden. (Most good gardeners will move a plant 3 or 4 times until they find the right place for it, and most beautiful gardens are the third or fourth ones the owners have planted.)

And so my current business, publishing, was the second I started. The first, selling antiquarian books was interesting but very time-consuming and rather exhausting.

I started crying out to the Lord in my exhaustion (in the words of Psalm 107) to help me find a business which could let me put my kids through private school while still leaving time and energy to write. And in a flash of insight, using little pieces of information, knowledge and experience I had subconsciously stored, the idea and business plan for our current publishing business–which is not particularly time-consuming or exhausting–came to me.

4 Beware of Greed

If a business is more or less successful, then, you will make money–more or less.

All addictions are born and grow in the mind. And so you must try very hard not to get addicted to watching or obsessing over the trajectory of sales, spreadsheets and bank balances.

Because while money is an excellent servant (Somerset Maugham likens it to a sixth sense without which one cannot properly appreciate the other five!!) it is an insatiable master. As it says in Ecclesiastes, he who loves money will never have money enough.

5 The Pricking of Griefs

Working to keep oneself and one’s family afloat at a standard of living best suited for one’s calling and vocation is one thing.

A business will not be devoid of hassle, no more than any other vocation on earth. In the world you will have trouble, as Jesus forewarned his disciples in his last conversation with them.

However, with a certain detachment, one can conduct it in peace, because one lives in Christ–at a very good address indeed. Definitely, on the right side of the tracks!

There is a fine line between working at a steady, rhythmic measured pace to achieve an interesting, comfortable standard of living, and overworking for the greed of money.

Proverbs again has something to say about this, “Do not wear yourself out to become rich. Have the wisdom to show restraint.” (Proverbs 23:4)

When one overworks–works at the expense of rest, relationships, physical health– driven by greed, one opens oneself up to being pricked by many griefs, because greed is an irrational emotion, and those avaricious for money will never have enough.

So while hassles are an inevitable part of work and life, overworking leads to an accumulation of trouble and hassle, to a piercing with many griefs.

It is very important to set time limits for how much you will work to prevent the scourge and exhaustion of overwork.

6 It’s just money.

That’s a really useful mantra.

You, being human, will make errors, which will lead to financial loss, sometimes trivial, sometimes rather serious.

Few businesses can be conducted single-handedly. Most businesses are like a chain, a complex interlocking of many human units. We have had nine of our friends working with us at various times, and are reliant on printers, distributors, shippers. Lots of people.

People who, being human, might well, on occasion, make errors, mess up. Money has been and may well again be lost, through other people’s errors, as well as my own.

And then, there is no point stewing about it. No point fretting. It’s just money.

Do not fret; it only leads to evil. Psalm 37:8

If however, a work relationship causes consistent stewing, stress, and aggro, and things cannot be resolved, it’s perhaps time to sever the work relationship and move on.

7 Never let money steal your peace. It’s just money

Never get emotionally involved in a transaction to do with money, when, as is inevitable in business, you run up against other people’s greed or dishonesty or aggressiveness. In business as in life, you will run up against people who should really be emailing their therapist, not you.

It’s just money, an inert substance, which can be earned again, or can be given to you again by your heavenly Father.

One’s peace, and mental, emotional and physical health, and relationships and happiness–these on the other hand are precious–priceless!!-– and cannot be as easily recaptured if frivolously squandered by stewing about money.

Think rationally in business conflicts to do with money. What is the outcome you want to achieve? Work towards that, realizing that it may well not be achieved. Either way, be at peace.

I think the non-violence Jesus recommended in the Sermon on the Mount is a risky but sensible business practice. It is better to lose small amounts of money than waste time and peace contending with an aggressive person.

8 Optimism is a lucrative mental and business habit.

While there is some truth to that old statement in the Desiderata, “Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery,”–and one learns the truth of this the hard way–optimism is a great business principle.

Our family business is a publishing company. Though we now have a decent list, we, of course, started with 1 book, then 5, then a dozen… And we used to pack and ship these ourselves, until we grew big enough to use distribution networks, and third party sellers.

So one drops an expensive book into the post with no proof that you have done so, totally reliant on the honesty of people, knowing you will have to replace it if they claim they haven’t received it.

When we first started, it cost £0.75 to get proof of posting, and the time/petrol to the PO. We got proof of posting for a while, then stopped and decided to see if it was cheaper to trust God and people. It was. Just a handful of books each year “did not arrive,” and replacing these or refunding was cheaper than getting proof of posting for everything.

Book buyers, on the whole, are honest, and discovering this was pleasant.

Optimism and trust are good business strategies.

Fear and suspicion on the other hand, are costly emotions–costly in terms of time, peace and mental health–AND financially costly!!

9 Enough

It is vital to learn the meaning of this word.

New technologies, the internet, social media are turning the traditional assumptions of business upside down.

There is a lot of money to be made.

But I don’t need to make all of it. Certainly not now.

Enough.

“To the one who pleases him, God gives wisdom and knowledge and joy, but to the sinner, He gives the task of gathering and heaping, only to give to the one to pleases the Lord.” Ecclesiastes 2:26

God save us from the task of gathering and heaping.

The one who has learnt the meaning of enough can work at a business at a measured pace, consistent with physical, emotional, spiritual and relational health.

10 The Lord is my Pacesetter.

I am naturally a A type personality, and it would come naturally to me to run ahead of the Lord and exhaust myself. To run a business on my own ideas and enthusiasms, and those of my co-workers.

The Lord is a gentle shepherd who goes before us, who walks with us. I remember a sermon which said that a hallmark of Satan is that he drives, that drivenness is used by the evil one to drive one over a Gadarene cliff.

It’s important for me to check-in with Christ, and to run through my ideas with him. What he invariably tells me is to slow down! (Why? Perhaps he has other good plans for me up his sleeve!)

And I do.

Because what I want more than anything is for his blessing to be on my business.

The blessing of the LORD brings wealth, and he adds no

trouble to it. Proverbs 10:22

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