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On Not Despising Deliverance

By Anita Mathias

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“Do not despise prophecy,” the Apostle Paul says, somewhat surprisingly.

Why would we despise it? Because we tend to suspect what we do not understand? Or because prophecy can attract fools, charlatans, the unstable, and conmen seeking to gain power over others—as well as, of course, those who can genuinely tune into God?

I no longer despise prophecy because of personal experiences with those who genuinely had the gift of prophecy.

* * *

What about deliverance ministries? In the first church I attended as a Christian, in a small American town in the South, an individual gained power by labelling everything untoward as a curse or demon-caused–infertility, miscarriages, ear pain, a fear of flying–and exorcizing people. He offered to baptise me to mark my adult commitment to Christ, and when I spontaneously resisted total immersion (I was afraid, having only learnt to swim as an adult) he halted the baptism for an exorcism. (But I remained nervous!)

Eventually that person left the church, taking the best tithers with him, and founded his own church, heavily based around deliverance—a spiritually unbalanced church which, fortunately, did not survive

So I had question marks about deliverance.

* * *

Around that time, however, I picked up a book by Billy Graham, which surprisingly claimed that 90% of Christians are “demonized,” (as opposed to possessed). A dark power, what Paul calls,  “evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, mighty powers in this dark world, and spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places,” controlled aspects of their lives. They were not entirely free when it came to their inability to forgive, perhaps; their out-of-control spending, addiction to sugar, alcohol, porn, anxiety, or negative thoughts.

* * *

What happens in deliverance? Someone with greater faith or spiritual authority uses their faith to expel dark powers from areas of your life. Uses their intimacy with God to implore God’s protection, a hedge, a strong tower in that area of your life.

You find freedom. Your sleep becomes deeper and more restful.

* * *

I have been married for 26 years. Anger used to be an issue in our marriage, and we’d get all histrionic and historical, and have time-wasting fights. And since life was short, I no longer wanted to waste time on stupid fights. I wanted to use wisdom and intelligence, stepping back, thinking rationally about the issues, acting using my mind and spirit, not my agitated emotions.

I eventually decided no more. No more fights. I have had enough. I will act with wisdom. It takes two to fight, and I will not be one of the two.

In the Old Testament, people marked important junctures of their lives— a major decision, an encounter with God–by building stone pillars. I wanted to mark my decision. When I visited a worship festival which had a deliverance ministry, I signed up for one on one prayer. The prayer minister was not slick, or well-educated. He called the little area of my life which was out of self-control and Spirit-control “a critter.” He prayed with me to expel it. I sighed and sighed as I physically felt relief, sensed something leaving, something generational, felt a huge sense of relief, lightness and freedom.

Harriet Lerner calls marriage the dance of intimacy. If one partner had strong emotions they cannot process, they can press their partner’s buttons, and start a fight. So they get to avoid dealing with their own discomfort. Eventually, couples get addicted to the adrenalin of anger.

After prayer, I found less anger in myself. I might yell a little, and then find I couldn’t do it. I couldn’t summon up the anger, the passion. I realised that to act out would be acting like a fool.

It was as if God had erected a hoop, an invisible boundary around me that I could not cross. I was experiencing the paradoxical freedom of being possessed by God’s spirit… I did not have to retaliate, angry word for angry word, historical accusation for accusation, all that foolishness. I could be still and quiet and write. I could go for a run. I could have a nap.

* * *

The other deliverance was equally astonishing. I was having coffee with a Christian friend, a woman a couple of years older than me, whom I respect and like for many things…her love for people, her spiritual wisdom, her warm heart, her bounciness and cheerfulness. And, since as Thoreau says, “Every man is the builder of a temple called his body to the god he worships,” I admire her too for her body; she’s all muscle. She swims, plays tennis, and runs half-marathons, faster than most men. I once did a run with her, and she did 3 miles in the time I did one. Oh well!

My friend asked, “So how are you really?” And I said, “It is well-ish with my soul, but…” (choose the path of humility, Anita, I said to myself) “I have been told to lose weight for my health and immune system, and, well, I haven’t been hugely successful.”

And then she told me a story I would never have guessed at. This slim attractive woman had been a binge-eater in her twenties. She binged, then purged, so that though she had been twenty pounds overweight, nobody guessed at her secret sin. But she knew. And she could not break her addiction to binges. One day, she cried out to the Lord in her distress, and, she said the only way she could describe it was—she was delivered. She no longer binge-ate; she got a job which required physical activity, and for her to be at her goal weight, and, within the year, she was.

I sighed, and knew that this was a moment for humility. This was a moment of destiny. So I said with simple intensity, “Will you pray for me to be delivered?”

She prayed. Listening to someone pray I can often tell whether they have entered the Throne-room, whether they have connected with God, and, often, I can intuitively tell if the prayer will be answered.

I knew I had been delivered from an addiction to food. I had to wait to see whether the deliverance would work out as the blind man was healed, first by seeing men like trees walking, and then seeing them clearly.

* * *

My daughters noticed the change first. We were on holiday in Tuscany, which has some of the best comfort food on the planet, morish food which releases addictive dopamine, and I found myself eating some of my spaghetti alle vongole, spaghetti and clams; linguine gamberetti, zucchini e zafferano, linguine with shrimp, zucchini, and saffron; spaghetti carbonara; or ravioli with spinach and ricotta, noticing that I was full, and then offering tastes to anyone who wanted them. “Mum, whatever diet you are on, we like it,” Zoe said.

But I was not on a diet. I had begun to find it physically difficult to continue eating once I was full! There was a force within me, reminding me to stop once I had had enough.

The Spirit is a remind-er, Jesus says, an internal reminder, bringing things to our remembrance.

* * *

And then I returned home, and would reach for a snack, and Someone, a kindly Someone, asked, “Anita, are you hungry?” And I would say, “No, but I am sad. I am bored. I am agitated. I am stressed; I am feeling hyper. I need a snack to help me settle down before I write. I need a reward after I write. I need a snack to help me transition between two activities.”

And the Spirit would say, “Ask Jesus to fill your Spirit.”

I would remember: I could ask the Holy Spirit to possess my spirit. Or I could eat a bar of chocolate. I prayed; desire for the stress-relieving snack receded. (And sometimes I succumbed. Sometimes, you see men like trees walking before you see clearly.)

It kept happening. Someone would say something sharp or cross or stressful, and my blood sugar would plunge, and I would think, “I need chocolate. I need a slice of fruit cake.” And then I would think, “Anita, you are not hungry. Might the Holy Spirit do it? Invite him in.”

Voila, 100 calories saved.

I realised that I was rarely physically hungry, so much so that I almost wondered if I were getting ill again, but then I truly skipped a meal, and real hunger returned.

When I was hungry, Someone kept reminding me to ask, “Anita, what will bless your body?” And I would basically cook up a skillet of vegetables, toss in some shrimp or fish, and some noodles or brown rice or pasta. Good for my family, good for me.

And freedom too, to eat the odd bit of chocolate, the odd slice of pizza…

Simple changes, prompted by the Spirit’s reminders: Don’t eat when you are not hungry. Stop eating when you are not hungry. Choose what will bless your body.

I stepped on the scale today. A cumulative weight loss of 24 pounds, the easiest ones after that prayer. (I have more to lose, of course, but, by the grace of Jesus, want to keep my eyes on Him through the process).


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  1. Chris Goswami says

    February 16, 2016 at 1:51 pm

    Thanks for sharing Anita. Sometimes we are all a little too timid in our prayers (me too!) So your blog is a timely reminder I think to Ask…. Seek…. Knock …..

    • Anita Mathias says

      February 16, 2016 at 4:21 pm

      Thanks Chris! And congratulations on winning “Blogger of the Year.” Well-deserved indeed!

  2. Southern Lady says

    February 15, 2016 at 4:50 pm

    Thank you for mentioning, Anita, that it’s okay to eat the occasional piece of cake or pizza slice.
    I think putting too many restrictions on ourselves seems like nothing more than a list of do’s and
    don’ts. I do better knowing that if I make a mistake I can make up for it somewhere else and the
    world will not fall off of it’s axis. I tend to be too hard on myself anyway. I have had two friends in
    my adult life who are sticklers for diet and eating healthy. The only problem is they take their own
    convictions and try to force them on everyone else. For instance, one friend actually pointed at a
    bottled coke someone had brought into a fellowship meeting and scolded her in front of myself and
    five other people. She didn’t even know this woman, yet she thought it was her duty to tell her how bad
    coke was for her instead of trying to make a connection with her first and earning the right to speak into
    her life that way. The woman with the coke was brand new and didn’t know anyone but the person
    who invited her there. She was embarrassed and humiliated and I never saw her again at the meetings.
    This same friend will sit at the table with you (often I was paying for her meal) and point out each and
    every item on my plate that she deemed not good for me. It was anything but an enjoyable meal. One
    time I stopped her in the middle of her endless rattling on and on and reminded her what the bible
    says about that in Romans/that the one who does not eat meat must not look down on the one who
    does, and the one who does eat meat must not look down on the one who does not. That stopped her
    for a little while but she’s back at it again. That kind of stuff actually makes it harder to overcome
    overeating. The bible says the LETTER of the law KILLS, but the Spirit (the freedom, grace and
    mercy of God’s word) gives LIFE.
    It’s one thing to ask for advice and to ask for prayer, but unwanted and unasked for advice is never
    welcome. I have certain convictions about things that are more a matter of personal taste than outright
    sin against God, but sometimes it’s best to keep those personal convictions to myself, unless God provides
    a way for me to speak about it to a general audience, as you have, not to a particular person who has not asked my
    opinion. If someone has a concern for me I would hope that instead of thinking they must lecture me every time,
    they would pray for me instead. Only God can change a heart. God bless!! (P.S. I love your site!!)

    • Anita Mathias says

      February 15, 2016 at 10:06 pm

      Yes; thank you!
      P.S. I am glad you like my site 🙂

  3. Katrina says

    February 12, 2016 at 11:24 am

    This is really interesting for me at the moment. I have food issues of a different sort that have come to light recently. Over
    Christmas – a time which I find particularly stressful – I noticed I had become addicted to a certain substance in food to which I’ve become intolerant. Through research online, I have discovered that this chemical may be responsible for much of the negative ‘stuff’ that has been happening in my body and central nervous system over the last few years. I’m praying about how to proceed through elimination diets, support groups and, as you say, deliverance. Thank you for writing about this in such a personal, detailed and informative way. God bless you as you deepen your walk with him. xx

    • Anita Mathias says

      February 12, 2016 at 5:16 pm

      It was indeed incredibly personal and detailed, Katrina, and I am so glad you found it helpful. Blessings as you come to the bottom of this. I have become incredibly aware of the effect of what I eat on my moods, happiness and energy. For me, a fruit and veggie breakfast and lunch= high energy. Carbs or sugar= mood plunge. Fish =energizing. Roast dinners are often followed by sluggishness. It’s fun hacking food for increased spiritual, mental and physical performance…though old habits die hard… 🙂
      Blessings!

  4. Leah Slawson says

    February 12, 2016 at 1:24 am

    Anita,
    Thank you for your honest writing here. I’ve had similar struggles with turning to food when I was really in need of something else. God does hear our prayers ! Blessings to you –
    Leah Slawson

    • Anita Mathias says

      February 12, 2016 at 10:39 am

      Yes! Thanks for reading and for your comment, Leah!

  5. Janet says

    February 10, 2016 at 8:44 pm

    This is wonderful, Anita! I know how you’ve struggled. What a blessing you’ve received. I’ve never trusted “deliverance” or “prophecy.” I know one can be delivered from issues/problems/ailments by God, but trusting a person? I don’t know. Maybe I haven’t met the right one. I don’t get out much! I try to stay open to the Spirit. How I love the Lord! Sometimes I’ll pray to see things or ask to be kept on the right path and ask God to hit me over the head, if necessary.
    Thank you for writing today. I’ve missed you and glad you are well. Continued prayers and happy thoughts your way!

    • Anita Mathias says

      February 10, 2016 at 9:07 pm

      Hi Janet, Aw, I am touched that you missed me. Do connect on Facebook, if you like.
      I don’t think another person can deliver you. Since God answers prayers with faith, perhaps God hears the simple faith-filled prayer of someone else in an area in which your own faith is weak because you have struggled and fallen so often. Or perhaps God honours the humility of asking for prayer. I know He has in my life.
      I am not saying that I won’t struggle in both these areas. But their grip on me has been broken, I think that is true!

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The Bishop of London, Sarah Mullaly, ordained Zoe. You can see her praying that Zoe will be filled with the Holy Spirit!!
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Christ, the Lion of Judah, stands at the centre of the throne in the guise of a lamb, looking as if it had been slain. No wonder his disciples struggled with his counter-cultural values. Oh, and we too!
The mother of the Apostles James and John, asks Jesus for a favour—that once He became King, her sons got the most important, prestigious seats at court, on his right and left. And the other ten, who would have liked the fame, glory, power,limelight and honour themselves are indignant and threatened.
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life seeking to lord it over others or boss them around.
But, in his wry kindness, he offers the ambitious twelve
and us something better than the second or third place.
He tells us how to actually be the most important person to
others at work, in our friend group, social circle, or church:Use your talents, gifts, and energy to bless others.
And we instinctively know Jesus is right. The greatest people in our lives are the kind people who invested in us, guided us and whose wise, radiant words are engraved on our hearts.
Wanting to sit with the cleverest, most successful, most famous people is the path of restlessness and discontent. The competition is vast. But seek to see people, to listen intently, to be kind, to empathise, and doors fling wide open for you, you rare thing!
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The challenge Jesus does offers him, however, the man cannot accept—to sell his vast possessions, give the money to the poor, and follow Jesus encumbered.
He leaves, grieving, and Jesus looks at him, loves him, and famously observes that it’s easier for a camel to squeeze through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to live in the world of wonders which is living under Christ’s kingship, guidance and protection. 
He reassures his dismayed disciples, however, that with God even the treasure-burdened can squeeze into God’s kingdom, “for with God, all things are possible.”
Following him would quite literally mean walking into a world of daily wonders, and immensely rich conversation, walking through Israel, Lebanon, Syria, and Jordan, quite impossible to do with suitcases and backpacks laden with treasure. 
For what would we reject God’s specific, internally heard whisper or directive, a micro-call? That is the idol which currently grips and possesses us. 
Not all of us have great riches, nor is money everyone’s greatest temptation—it can be success, fame, universal esteem, you name it…
But, since with God all things are possible, even those who waver in their pursuit of God can still experience him in fits and snatches, find our spirits singing on a walk or during worship in church, or find our hearts strangely warmed by Scripture, and, sometimes, even “see” Christ stand before us. 
For Christ looks at us, Christ loves us, and says, “With God, all things are possible,” even we, the flawed, entering his beautiful Kingdom.
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How to Find the Freedom of Forgiveness
Letting go on anger and forgiving is both an emotional transaction & a decision of the will. We discover we cannot command our emotions to forgive and relinquish anger. So how do we find the space and clarity of forgiveness in our mind, spirit & emotions?
When tormenting memories surface, our cortisol, adrenaline, blood pressure, and heart rate all rise. It’s good to take a literally quick walk with Jesus, to calm this neurological and physiological storm. And then honestly name these emotions… for feelings buried alive never die.
Then, in a process called “the healing of memories,” mentally visualise the painful scene, seeing Christ himself there, his eyes brimming with compassion. Ask Christ to heal the sting, to draw the poison from these memories of experiences. We are caterpillars in a ring of fire, as Martin Luther wrote--unable to rescue ourselves. We need help from above.
Accept what happened. What happened, happened. Then, as the Apostle Paul advises, give thanks in everything, though not for everything. Give thanks because God can bring good out of the swindle and the injustice. Ask him to bring magic and beauty from the ashes.
If, like the persistent widow Jesus spoke of, you want to pray for justice--that the swindler and the abusers’ characters are revealed, so many are protected, then do so--but first, purify your own life.
And now, just forgive. Say aloud, I forgive you for … You are setting a captive free. Yourself. Come alive. Be free. 
And when memories of deep injuries arise, say: “No. No. Not going there.” Stop repeating the devastating story to yourself or anyone else. Don’t waste your time & emotional energy, nor let yourself be overwhelmed by anger at someone else’s evil actions. Don’t let the past poison today. Refuse to allow reinjury. Deliberately think instead of things noble, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy.
So keep trying, in obedience, to forgive, to let go of your anger until you suddenly realise that you have forgiven, and can remember past events without agitation. God be with us!
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