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		By: Most Read Posts on Dreaming Beneath the Spires in 2013 - Dreaming Beneath the Spires		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Dec 2013 21:25:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] 14 The Parable of the Bridge or “When to Say No to Insistent People” [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		By: Anita Mathias		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Sep 2013 07:22:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anitamathias.com/2013/01/24/the-parable-of-the-bridge-or-when-to-say-no-to-insistent-people/#comment-22150&quot;&gt;nancy mukiira&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://anitamathias.com/2013/01/24/the-parable-of-the-bridge-or-when-to-say-no-to-insistent-people/#comment-22150">nancy mukiira</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
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		By: nancy mukiira		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Sep 2013 13:51:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Am sadly realizing that what you are saying is so true... and this parable has helped see what i needed to see. thanks.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Am sadly realizing that what you are saying is so true&#8230; and this parable has helped see what i needed to see. thanks.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 19:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		By: Anita Mathias		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 10:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anitamathias.com/2013/01/24/the-parable-of-the-bridge-or-when-to-say-no-to-insistent-people/#comment-19154&quot;&gt;SimplifyLady&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, SimplifyLady. I guess we need to sort out our role as bloggers. Writers or advisers, counsellors, pastors, cyber-friends to our readers. Once our blog reaches a certain point, if we take on the role of mother-confessor, pastor, cyber-friend to dozens, our writing will suffer. Tough choice!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://anitamathias.com/2013/01/24/the-parable-of-the-bridge-or-when-to-say-no-to-insistent-people/#comment-19154">SimplifyLady</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, SimplifyLady. I guess we need to sort out our role as bloggers. Writers or advisers, counsellors, pastors, cyber-friends to our readers. Once our blog reaches a certain point, if we take on the role of mother-confessor, pastor, cyber-friend to dozens, our writing will suffer. Tough choice!</p>
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		By: SimplifyLady		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 03:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Excellent! I think your lady came over to me! It is so true as a public online person, that people write. Most have the courtesy of just 1-3 email exchange. But I&#039;ve experienced a few needy women who write everything about their life. One I had to actually set a filter to delete her email. Mostly ask God what to do and then run it by close friends. They told me I responded way too much and gave me the common sense to stop.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent! I think your lady came over to me! It is so true as a public online person, that people write. Most have the courtesy of just 1-3 email exchange. But I&#8217;ve experienced a few needy women who write everything about their life. One I had to actually set a filter to delete her email. Mostly ask God what to do and then run it by close friends. They told me I responded way too much and gave me the common sense to stop.</p>
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		By: Anita Mathias		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2013 17:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anitamathias.com/2013/01/24/the-parable-of-the-bridge-or-when-to-say-no-to-insistent-people/#comment-19150&quot;&gt;Ann Vertel&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you so much, Ann!]]></description>
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<p>Thank you so much, Ann!</p>
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		By: Anita Mathias		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2013 17:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anitamathias.com/2013/01/24/the-parable-of-the-bridge-or-when-to-say-no-to-insistent-people/#comment-19151&quot;&gt;Emily&lt;/a&gt;.

I love that saying &quot;When you say yes to something, you&#039;re inevitably saying No to something else.&quot; I need to think about that more often.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://anitamathias.com/2013/01/24/the-parable-of-the-bridge-or-when-to-say-no-to-insistent-people/#comment-19151">Emily</a>.</p>
<p>I love that saying &#8220;When you say yes to something, you&#8217;re inevitably saying No to something else.&#8221; I need to think about that more often.</p>
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		By: Emily		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2013 17:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow. You know, I hadn&#039;t thought of it in quite that way before. I&#039;ve heard the saying &quot;when you say yes to something you&#039;re inevitably saying no to something else&quot; but the story of the bridge - well it&#039;s making me think this Friday afternoon. Thanks so much for sharing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. You know, I hadn&#8217;t thought of it in quite that way before. I&#8217;ve heard the saying &#8220;when you say yes to something you&#8217;re inevitably saying no to something else&#8221; but the story of the bridge &#8211; well it&#8217;s making me think this Friday afternoon. Thanks so much for sharing!</p>
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